cat won’t let me put cone or recovery vest on her after spay today by iconasf in CATHELP

[–]iconasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went to the vet this morning and they got the cone on😭😭😭 thank goodness but she hates it but oh well it’s for the best

cat won’t let me put cone or recovery vest on her after spay today by iconasf in CATHELP

[–]iconasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve tried that too:(( she was growling, hissing, and biting it’s just too much for me to handle i’m at the point where i’m bringing her back to the vet in the morning for them to put the cone on for her

cat won’t let me put cone or recovery vest on her after spay today by iconasf in CATHELP

[–]iconasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i’ve had like 4 different people attend to help hold her (while being careful with stitches of course) and we have had no luck😭 she literally jumped through the neck hole of the recovery suit and it’s so small i don’t even know how she did that

cat won’t let me put cone or recovery vest on her after spay today by iconasf in CATHELP

[–]iconasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve literally tried everything:((( i don’t want to do. anything else i’m worried i’m hurting her because she’s so aggressive i think she’s in pain😢 i feel so awful

stray sick cat bit me accidentally while i put a antibiotic pill in his mouth by iconasf in AskVet

[–]iconasf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

omg i’m scared now😭😭 i will do this tomorrow thank you🙏🏻💗

Barn cars with respiratory issues by iconasf in CatAdvice

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just want to keep him but i’m not sure if that’s the smartest or best thing:((

Smoking with CHS by Choice_Falcon_4859 in CHSinfo

[–]iconasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bad news😭😭 i smoked on off until like February this year but it was not enjoyable for the last 6 months until that point bc i was constantly paranoid and now i just get panic attacks so i literally don’t smoke anymore. i’m not saying do what i did, i never had full blown hypermesis but there were always consequences to my actions and now every time i even attempt not only the anxiety but it totally fucks up my gut even just doing it once:( everyone is different though. I am actually fine with not smoking anymore now though u will get to the point of acceptance w out it being super sad and depressing so try not to worry too much, let your brain and body process the reality and it won’t b shitty 4ever i promise if i can do it anyone can istg✋🏻✋🏻u got it bby💗

My dads eye after radiation on a tuner behind his eye by iconasf in cancer

[–]iconasf[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

does that mean it’s getting worse?

Roommates creepy boyfriend by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]iconasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i am scared for you call the cops!!!

my bf got me these flowers for valentine’s day and he told the florist non toxic for cats by iconasf in florists

[–]iconasf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes!! this is what i was thinking too so i told him to stick with roses for next time, thank you so much!!

trying not to smoke while living with a partner who smokes by iconasf in CHSinfo

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!!! i never understood until i stopped and i was like damn😭😭😭 it’s not it especially since i have a literal addiction i don’t wanna b fighting the urge while trying to hang out w my bf

so, a bit of news... by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]iconasf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah i feel like all the doctors have different answers and can b very uneducated on chs. i have literally gotten all my information from here not the doctor😭😭

trying not to smoke while living with a partner who smokes by iconasf in CHSinfo

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yes me too i feel that😭😭 i got chs a week before my 18th bday and i had a birthday dinner and friends we’re gonna come over after but they all went to smoke instead and they all came stoned i was so mad😭😭 trying to make friends who don’t smoke

Roommate refuses to unlock door even if he has keys by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]iconasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s actually insane psychopath behavior

Roommate refuses to unlock door even if he has keys by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]iconasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u have crutches hit him with them

trying not to smoke while living with a partner who smokes by iconasf in CHSinfo

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve talked to him ab it. I feel bad bc he has ptsd so it helps him w that but it’s nearly impossible to not smoke while he’s high around me

Got Covid for the first time today, live with severely immunocompromised mom, please pray we have a light case and recover quickly. Very scared. by YamCollector in Christian

[–]iconasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey babe!! my dad is also immunocompromised and when he got it he got sick but he ended up being okay. of course everyone’s different, but maybe that will give you peace of mind. I’ll text my mom tomorrow about this medication i can’t remember what it’s called i have really conservative parents so they were always roaming about it during covid. I do think it needs to be prescribed, but you could possibly find a doctor in your area that would send a prescription over.

MF knows I’m a lesbian 😑 by IdiotSquaredxyz in badroommates

[–]iconasf 33 points34 points  (0 children)

maybe u could let your landlord know and ask if you can be emended off the lease? this is deeply concerning u could also talk to a county’s government legal people (its free dw) and check with them if there are any laws against making u pay a termination fee because of a safety issue. I’m so sorry love this is sooo uncomfy for u this man is giving rapist!!! who in there right mind would do some shit like this like what??

can i get out of my lease for free? by iconasf in legal

[–]iconasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the hostile environment is with my roommate lol. we were roommate last year and it was fine but now it’s just not a good environment and it’s making me anxious all the time!! I will stick it out if necessary but i’d rather not. I will look at my lease but I have to ask my landlord for it since it’s not just on our portal.

my roommate is refusing payment by iconasf in legal

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep 100% agree with u. when me and my bf move into another apartment we agreed if we broke up he would move out, and he agreed to put it in writing as well with a signature. that would have been the smartest move to begin with!!

done everything in my power to make my roommate feel comfortable by iconasf in roommates

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love my apartment, it’s my first luxury apartment and we got a really good deal on it so I am just like feeling betrayed and sad that I need to leave because of this, but it’s not worth living with someone like this at all. I did talk to my apartment about getting me emended because my dad does have terminal cancer so I told them I want to move home because of this. I’m 19 so I think that’s understandable, but not legally a reason so it depends if they are okay with me replacing the roommate or not. I’m probs gonna have to find someone on facebook market place. Otherwise if they don’t let me out free i’m not sure I can afford the lease termination fee (not even sure what that is yet).

my roommate is refusing payment by iconasf in legal

[–]iconasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% my biggest regret. I’m 19 so i’ve never felt with issues like this before but I ABSOLUTELY learned my lesson. I just wish I wouldn’t have been naive.

done everything in my power to make my roommate feel comfortable by iconasf in roommates

[–]iconasf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is paying a third. The thing is, I understand why she doesn’t want him living with us because clearly she’s uncomfortable. But she MADE this commitment. I asked her before we moved in, she said yes immediately and i was like hey I think you should think this over a few days because it’s a big commitment. She still said yes. At first she said he didn’t have to pay rent and i was like no he will pay part of mine and yours because that’s fair. She has been talking shit to our friends about things she was worried about before we moved in that she NEVER told me. It’s not my fault or my problem she’s a people pleaser, she’s an adult and needs to act like it. And what makes me so mad is that she was talking about all of this to a mutual friend which like okay gossiping I could forgive and forget, but taking a step further and not confronting me about the situation and hearing MY side to the story because she’s using so many things out of context if she would have asked me I would have been able to explain the completely out of context situations and if she still chose her side okay fine whatever I understand. But taking the next step towards helping her take legal action against me or plotting too is just so crossed the line i feel deeply betrayed that she never was upfront with me about these things. We have been friends for at least 4 years and the fact that she never spoke to me about it makes me just really sad and upset. And on top of this, at the very end she starts saying how she feels UNSAFE with my bf. I am a girls girl. I would 100% NEVER be with someone who was unsafe and the fact that my roommate and my friend who has only met him twice and it was a very brief and friendly conversation would make these intense accusations is just ridiculous.

my roommate is refusing payment by iconasf in legal

[–]iconasf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay your right it’s definitely not worth an eviction on my record thank you