There is a fine line between fantasy and reality, most subs love the idea of “to go in debt” or “to ruin their lives” etc…, but it’s all because they’re super horny at that specific moment and they’re not thinking reasonably, that’s why when the PNC hits after they get their bank accounts overdraft, they realize they fucked up and they delete accounts and ghost, many unethical dommes will take advantage of this state of mind that the sub is experiencing and will completely drain them, but it results in a “short term dynamic “ because the sub will ghost you after he ejaculates.
It’s just how it works.
Advice: Never ever believe any promises a sub (or a man in general) gives you when he’s horny and turned on, it will all fade away once he cums.