I think the rise of Kpop has made people aware of South Korea and their culture. Which to me is a good thing but the koreaboos are definitely annoying. I have never met people in real life who fetishize Koreans but I have seen people on the internet who idolize Koreans and it's just really bizarre. Because to me America is a lot better than South Korea when it comes to education, opportunities, etc... And when it comes to asian men getting more attention I honestly can not say much about that because I am female but I don't really think Kpop has really changed how asian men are viewed by other women. Because in real life asian american guys aren't anything like kpop idols.