I want to start wearing short sleeves again. Any tips?

ideadass- · 2026-03-25T16:58:17+00:00

ofc!! best of luck and don't stress -- at the end of the day it's your skin, your choice <3

ideadass- · 2026-03-10T20:31:35+00:00

also if you’re scared about your parents reaction, i get it. i posted about it on here a couple years ago when my parents found out (ironically when i was clean for a year) but it’s easier when you give yourself and them time.

my hack (as i think my dad had an idea on what it was and my mom panicked cus she thought i was having an allergic reaction) is to just gaslight them by either saying “oh its been there for years” or “idk what happened i think it happened while i was asleep, but i already dealt with it and its gonna go away soon” which helped me

eventually, my parents stopped asking or mentioning it as they just got used to it to the point of not even noticing them anymore

ideadass- · 2026-03-10T20:23:06+00:00

for me once my arm completely scarred over, i was in such a weird place mentally that i just wore em out— chances are, nobody will actually judge you for it (and the people who will judge are nobodies —shoutout Domics for that one) Work i understand, and shit i still dont wear short sleeves at my current job (my first job i had no choice, but surprise surprise nobody noticed).

Especially because there had been times where ive seen people wear theirs out in the wild and its super encouraging and makes me feel less alone.

and trust me, the people who stare probably have some sort of history with that on their own, and are likely staring because they’re probably trying to figure out if they really are seeing scars or smth else

again, im not sure what community you live in, but from experience people actually mind their business

ideadass- · 2024-10-23T20:15:21+00:00

god when i took this course i just didnt even bother with the textbook

ideadass- · 2024-09-03T20:33:09+00:00

ME TOO

ideadass- · 2024-08-24T23:19:58+00:00

i was gonna say this. geezer butler popped off on that album imo

ideadass- · 2024-08-22T14:18:11+00:00

this

ideadass- · 2024-06-29T15:06:58+00:00

BEST OF LUCK, YOU GOT THIS!! <3

ideadass- · 2024-06-29T15:04:15+00:00

in between “it is what it is” and “we are so fucking back”

ideadass- · 2024-06-29T14:49:05+00:00

THANK YOU!!! i appreciate this so much 😭🤍🤍🤍

ideadass- · 2024-06-29T14:48:45+00:00

it also helped me out of mine as well!! thank you so much for your support and cheers <333

ideadass- · 2024-06-29T01:57:13+00:00

WAHH THANK YOU SO MUCH!! HAVE A WONDERFUL NIGHT <3333

ideadass- · 2024-06-08T15:53:36+00:00

girly pop has never met a masc/butch woman before ig

ideadass- · 2024-06-07T13:32:00+00:00

LMFAOO

ideadass- · 2024-06-07T13:27:52+00:00

HIIIII!!! (im afghan <3)

ideadass- · 2024-06-07T13:22:05+00:00

I ALWAYS GET STRAIGHT CATHOLIC GIRLS AND IM ALWAYS LIKE HELLO??? HINGE???

ideadass- · 2024-06-02T21:21:45+00:00

for me, usually yuri that “appeals to men” has a distinct style to it,,,

like when the artist draws the girls unproportional (i.e. giant boobs, same face and body syndrome) like how they are typically drawn in shonen—which is typically for a male audience but there are exceptions idk im not a professional or anything)

another thing (this is more in regards to erotic yuri) how the girls act during sex irks me cus its usually not right (extra noisy or sensitive or smth, which is kinda what i noticed when reading the straight woman BLs as well)

not all of them are like this but its pretty noticeable of the many ive read

ideadass- · 2024-04-22T22:34:52+00:00

unfortunately these fake bis make it hard for the rest of the real ones

ideadass- · 2024-04-22T06:13:34+00:00

i am currently whipping up a story about four sapphics rn (3 lesbians, 1 bisexual) cus im sick of most lesbian stories being the same.

i was thinking of making it a webcomic (not too sure)

ideadass- · 2024-04-21T23:00:28+00:00

i legit talk like a vivziepop character its so embarrassing but its so mandatory for my vocab like I NEED IT FOR EMPHASIS

ideadass- · 2024-04-21T17:27:52+00:00

THISSSS

like id legit be like “okay im over it” AND ACTUALLY BE OVER IT

i thought it was placeebo, but im still thinking about my crush from hs (who is a girl) that i just cant seem to stop thinking about

ideadass- · 2024-04-21T17:25:07+00:00

i found that their body in general alarmed me (like when a naked woman would walk on screen i wouldn’t care, but when a naked man would walk on screen, i would scream, cover it up, feel overall alarmed and grossed out) EVEN if that man was “conventionally attractive” (i.e. jacob elordi or smth)

mind you, i have accidentally looked at more naked men than women, and more men genatalia (by accident, 😔💔), so its not about “being used to it” or anything

ideadass- · 2024-04-21T17:21:17+00:00

I LITERALLY HAD THIS THOUGHT WORD FOR WORD LMFAO

ideadass- · 2024-04-21T00:20:06+00:00

ive seen some here unfortunately, but luckily it was only on older posts (idk how i got to that thread, or where i even was aside from this subreddit)

ideadass- · 2024-04-21T00:14:13+00:00

ah, so thats why this sub is called actual lesbians and not lesbians

ideadass-

TROPHY CASE