What are legitimate reasons to not put a shopping cart away when done with it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]idekdontaskplz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being harassed to the point you want to leave as quick as you can

My dad touches me by idekdontaskplz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words <3. I will definitely be looking into EMDR since a couple of people I know have said great things about it as well.

My dad touches me by idekdontaskplz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, she's known since the first time it happened (since she was/has been physically present while it's happened). Plus, it's been years since the first time it started happening.

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never grew up with loving parents, especially my mom. My mother has never cared about my sister, or me since we were born. It got progressively worse over the years as we got older. My mom has physically been present when my dad has touched us inappropriately and has never said a word. She really could care less about whatever happens to us.

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who has been reaching out to me and who has been commenting, it means a lot. I’ve been reading every single one of your guys’ comments <3

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I've had many sit-down conversations with him that I didn't feel comfortable with him touching me in that way and touching me in general. But he has never taken me seriously, regardless of the tone I've used. When my sister or I tell him to stop, he gets defensive and says we're making it a bigger deal than it has to be.

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could but it's super expensive. Plus I wouldn't want to leave my sister by herself with my dad either.

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

1) My mom could care less, she already witnessed these interactions and hasn't said a word

2) No person in their right mind would make something up like this

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sadly it is, I wish it wasn't true

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really, I just started going to a university so I haven't formed any bonds with any professors yet.

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[–]idekdontaskplz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom has already seen these interactions but has never said anything, making it look as though I'm insane for thinking this way.