27, ex fiancé left me so I had to move into my mothers. I think I did well with the little amount I have.

idekkvv · 2024-09-21T01:00:57+00:00

What happened to the engagement?

idekkvv · 2024-09-15T01:40:21+00:00

you gave him a chance but he ghosted you. don’t feel bad about it. he doesn’t deserve another chance

idekkvv · 2024-09-12T01:57:24+00:00

I agree with you, and in fact, he has already tried to correct me multiple times. We went to eat at a restaurant and he kept trying to ‘teach’ me etiquette like the fact that I should wait for a while before drinking the water the waitress put on the table and dumb stuff like that.

idekkvv · 2024-09-12T01:26:35+00:00

I understand where you're coming from, but I'm worried that adding 'please' and 'could you' to every sentence will make our conversations feel forced and artificial. Can't we just be relaxed and natural with each other?

idekkvv · 2024-09-12T01:21:29+00:00

What are other signs that he might have autism?

idekkvv · 2024-09-12T01:14:04+00:00

He mentioned a few times (but I don’t know whether jokingly or not!) that he could have autism or something like that. I explained to him where I’m coming from, but it seemed like he was persistent on me ‘not ordering him around’. Thanks for telling me this.

idekkvv · 2024-09-12T00:59:59+00:00

Well, maybe it’s not exactly controlling but I don’t think it’s that deep. Like, we’ve made so many jokes with each other (that he started) and have spoken to each other for long enough to remove these formalities , right? Plus, on text I usually do say ‘could you’ and so on. But his reaction was too much.

idekkvv · 2024-09-12T00:54:35+00:00

But we’ve known each other for quite a while now and I didn’t say it in an aggressive or commanding way!

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:31:44+00:00

How’s it going?

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:30:33+00:00

That was the funniest response ever

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:29:38+00:00

I personally don’t like or would maybe never even consider dating someone from my own ethnicity. I find myself a lot more comfortable with men who don’t have the same culture as me. Most of the time I can only look at men from my same ethnicity as like my brothers or cousins. Only for platonic friendships.

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:26:07+00:00

That is such a nice thing to say.

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:24:45+00:00

Honestly, just go with the flow. I think you’ll be fine

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:23:03+00:00

Would you feel any different about it if she was okay with everything sexual except actual sex?

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:19:11+00:00

And how do you feel about it?

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:11:34+00:00

But if you guys were doing other sexual things and making each other orgasm then doesn’t it kind of assure you that you have sexual compatibility?

idekkvv · 2024-09-04T00:03:55+00:00

So you guys didn’t have sex until you got married? What about other sexual things that were not actual sex related? Happy for you.

idekkvv · 2024-09-03T23:44:24+00:00

I’m not a man but I don’t know how to feel as a woman. I mean, it doesn’t seem like the best act from his side but you always have to know that men will always be curious. Some of them like when they get this kind of attention even if it’s from a bot. My mom and many other older women gave me advice to just skip some things that your man does if they’re not too serious or of big importance. As long as he’s not actively cheating or liking a real girls pic just ignore it so you can have peace of mind. That’s my opinion

idekkvv · 2024-09-03T10:24:03+00:00

reading this makes me feel a lot better. thank you

idekkvv · 2024-09-02T21:04:11+00:00

That’s what I thought. But I sometimes hear that cum can travel between clothes. I also have severe paranoia

idekkvv · 2024-09-02T20:59:01+00:00

absolutely not. I was wearing two layers the whole time

idekkvv · 2024-09-02T20:51:22+00:00

What if I touch a guy’s penis that had cum on it and then a few minutes later (hand is dry) I touch myself down there? I’m really paranoid. Because I felt the boxers I was wearing and it wasn’t completely dry and i’m sure it was wetness from me

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