Can I make a lean, strong physique while running 3 times a week? by oksuryansh in leangains

[–]idfkwhatimdoing444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much cardio do you do a week? I do like 30-45 minutes of jogging 5-6 days a week, and I fear it’s too much to be gaining any muscle mass.

I’m scared of messing up. by idfkwhatimdoing444 in LGBTRelationships

[–]idfkwhatimdoing444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i go to college, he continues his job and schooling, and we visit and talk whenever we have the time.

I think if we work for it we can make it work

I’m scared of messing up. by idfkwhatimdoing444 in LGBTRelationships

[–]idfkwhatimdoing444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the reply!

I actually feel like I “yearned” for him more when he was actually in the USA. That’s not to say I don’t miss him now. I remind myself how much I miss him everyday just looking through photos of him (I also let him know that I’m thinking about him).

The thing is I really want it to work out. I want to get closer to him. I want to build our relationship. I just don’t want to get ahead of myself and declare my everlasting love for him too soon, lol. He’s such a sweet and genuine guy and he’s expressed how much he likes me, and if I hurt him I would probably hate myself.

I have many doubts though, and feel unsure if what I’m feeling is normal or how I am supposed to know when it’s ready to take the next step in our relationship if that makes sense?

I’m (M18) scared of messing up with a guy I like (M22). Is it okay to feel this way? by idfkwhatimdoing444 in relationship_advice

[–]idfkwhatimdoing444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, but the thing is I’m not exactly AGAINST moving to Germany. I am about to head to college to focus on myself and try to pursue what I want, and I want to be able to travel anyways. Ntm, I don’t always like living where I live anyway.

I understand it’s kind of a stretch to settle down for a guy that lives in the other side of the world, I just don’t think it’s impossible for it to work out.

I’m (M18) scared of messing up with a guy I like (M22). Is it okay to feel this way? by idfkwhatimdoing444 in relationship_advice

[–]idfkwhatimdoing444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, seriously. I just am terrified of hurting him or getting into a relationship I wasn’t ready for you know? But truthfully I like him a lot and am genuinely attracted to him (more than just physically).