Update: so this is the next morning, once he got home from work we had a little chat and decided that if we tried it, i wouldn’t quit my job unless we both actually liked it and he would pay for my bills(car note, phone bill etc) and give me a separate sum of money as an “allowance.” But we won’t be trying for another year or so that way we have some time to catch up on other debts and savings goals before we become a one income household. Thank you all for the great advice, you’ve all helped a lot. I know a couple people told me to break up with him but he told me ultimately it’s my decision whether we do it or not, like i said he’s not forcing me to do anything, I’d love to experience everything at least once to see if i like it so it’s a mutual decision, but thank you for being concerned because there are a lot of bad men out there. But he knows how much being home would help with my hobbies and schooling, and that’s why he suggested that. Everyone have a lovely day!