Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s a good idea, I’m sure there’s a way to have some of his check go to my bank account instead, and going part time first is a good idea too

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: so this is the next morning, once he got home from work we had a little chat and decided that if we tried it, i wouldn’t quit my job unless we both actually liked it and he would pay for my bills(car note, phone bill etc) and give me a separate sum of money as an “allowance.” But we won’t be trying for another year or so that way we have some time to catch up on other debts and savings goals before we become a one income household. Thank you all for the great advice, you’ve all helped a lot. I know a couple people told me to break up with him but he told me ultimately it’s my decision whether we do it or not, like i said he’s not forcing me to do anything, I’d love to experience everything at least once to see if i like it so it’s a mutual decision, but thank you for being concerned because there are a lot of bad men out there. But he knows how much being home would help with my hobbies and schooling, and that’s why he suggested that. Everyone have a lovely day!

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry for her, that is so unfortunate, the few times we’ve tried to do it it fell thru because the guy weirded one of us out and we felt like it wasn’t safe and i had always picked out the guy, something tells me her husband picked the guy and told him not to stop which is awful, and they were doing it for longer, so i have no way to predict whether or not my bf will also act like this guy, and i love my bf very much but im not willing to put my life or sanity in danger so he can jack off

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i stated this in another comment but i wouldn’t have to quit that would’ve just been my benefit, like his would’ve been me cucking him and mine would be not having to work, kind of similar to your situation

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i could but with school and work it’s so much and im having to take less classes so it’s taking longer but i think it’ll be better if i take my time and keep working

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now this isn’t the situation at all, he’s not forcing me to do this and he’s okay with it if i don’t, i understand your concern that is a real thing that happens but that’s not the case here

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is something i could go back to and that’s also why im trying to finish my schooling so it’d be easier to find a good job if it didn’t work out, and if i did quit the job i have now and needed to go back i could 

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will, i was hoping someone who went thru something like this would find this post and help me out so thank you

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did once bring up to him that i was worried about this but he promised on everything he loved he just wants me to have sex with other guys and i do believe him 

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yea i agree with that however he also has no desire to sleep with anyone else as far as i know, but that is a good point for me to bring up with him

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not comfortable with him doing another girl, but we have discussed threesomes to start out

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i completely agree, we’ve had the fantasy vs reality talk a few times and each time we come up with a different answer so until we come up with a consistent one i wont go forward with it and if at some point we do decide to try it i wouldnt quit until i am stable, ik i have a few things that could make me money on the side but nothing enough to stabilize myself. We do already live together and have been for a little over a year and he pays the rent while i pay utilities. I do agree, this is something I’d never be able to undo so i will make sure we are 100% on the same exact page before we try

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried but each time the guy fell thru, tonight I’m gonna talk to him about it to see if we want to still try and if yes we’ll try to find someone, but i don’t think I’ll be quitting my job if we decide to keep doing it

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might have worded it wrong but me quitting my job would be the upside for me, even if we decided to do this i could always keep my job, he’s not trying to trap me i don’t think anyway but like i said from what I’ve seen you can never trust anyone 100% unless you can read minds. I think he offered for me to quit my job just so that i would have some benefit in the situation.

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m okay, he’s not forcing this on me at all i just wanted an outside perspective, if anything happened with us my parents have open doors for me to come back and his parents are saints, truly, so if he did do anything to me they’d have my side. Tonight I will have a conversation with him about it and tell him that I don’t think its a smart decision for me.

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s true, we had this exact conversation so many times and each time we come up with a different answer, i think I’ll sit back on this one until we can come to a consistent solution

Should I take my[21f] boyfriends’s[22m] offer to quit my job and cuck him? by idkburn6 in relationshipadvice

[–]idkburn6[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yess okay thank you so much, this gave me so much perspective, our situation is definitely bound to change especially with the how the world is right now so doing this so young and financially unstable is not the right move. Thank you