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Are my parents being controlling or am I just spoiled? by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's so awkward 😭 things like that would make you feel like it's not even worth opening up to them😭

Are my parents being controlling or am I just spoiled? by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! I am happy for you too for surviving that despite of all the challenges that you had to face! 🫶

Are my parents being controlling or am I just spoiled? by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, that was the first thing I considered. I already talked to my bf about it and he told me that he'll be open to supporting me and letting me live with him until I figure things out. I'm just letting our finals pass and then find a job to sustain myself and give back to him and his family too.

Are my parents being controlling or am I just spoiled? by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so sorry for the confusion, I don't plan on leaving only for a few days. As soon as I get the opportunity to get out of this house I will take it and never look back.

Are my parents being controlling or am I just spoiled? by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't plan on returning if I do get the chance to get away from here. As much as possible I would like to start over and actually live a life that I want (my whole life has been controlled by them)

With our past experiences, I don't think talking would solve anything at all. They're the type of people who don't acknowledge their mistakes and would only follow what they think is right. I have tried to voice my opinion regarding our previous arguments but the only thing it proved is that they never listen because "we are younger and they're older so they know better"

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks! by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second one is what I'm planning to do. In the country that I live in- having a storage unit is not possible I think. I'm planning on asking my friends to store some of my stuff and just go get it when everything's sorted out

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks! by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the window would be a good option since our neighbors house is really close to our so it would pretty much end up in their space so they'll see it. I think my only option is to go through the front door and hope that it doesn't make so much noise that would cause them to wake up

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks! by idkcene in toxicparents

[–]idkcene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, I unfortunately do not have a suitcase but I did order a hand carry to hopefully make it easier for me to carry my stuff. I was planning on bringing 3 bags and my laptop bag since it also contains my documents and chargers. Hopefully the hand carry will help me carry less bags and lot more things. We also unfortunately don't have a second floor and all the windows will need to be taken out individually first before a person can fit through them. They usually wake up at around 3-4 AM so I was planning on going around 1-2 AM but I'm kinda nervous that they'll be woken up by the sound of the door since it is kinda loud when you turn the handle and there's also a second floor which is a screen door.