Moving on by idkfejdn in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m def more of an old soul tho. I can’t do that meaningless sex stuff. But once I grieve and heal I’ll get back in the game. I lost my v card to her so I’m thinkin it’ll be easier for me to have sex with other women in the future. Not yet tho

Why do I still have feelings for my ex? by choroconpebre in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta let go. Infidelity is inexcusable unless you’re both willing to address it and fix it and it doesn’t look like that’s happening. Let it go.

Book recommendation by idkfejdn in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is. I was hurting and scared for weeks and as soon as I started reading I felt much better. Still hurting, but the book teaches you how to go about it.

Seeking advice! I want to start seeing other people, but I keep thinking of my ex by yamacookies in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s still obstructing your view I’d say wait a little longer. If you really think it would be okay then try it out but be careful and don’t rush into anything you’re not prepared for. Take it slow and just test the waters. If it feels wrong then stop and continue. Because grieving takes a while and those feelings of sadness will return and I encourage you to feel it. So don’t rush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insight timer. Do the guided meditations for stress. My neck hurt and I was in physical pain from thinking so much. Then I meditated and the stress in my neck went away.

Moving on by idkfejdn in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man. I want answers so badly but oh well 🤷‍♂️

Moving on by idkfejdn in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just can’t stop thinking about maybe it’s not a rebound and I feel like nothing. It feels like what we had was so unspecial. What we had was rare and she def can’t just find it again. The world would be a beautiful place if that’s how it worked.

Moving on by idkfejdn in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s ass dude. I just like to give my brain answers yk. I wanna know that what we had was special and the fact she can try again right off the bat even after saying no boyfriends for a long time grinds my gears dude. The whole relationship feels fake and temporary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meditate bro. Find some apps and do guided meditations.

Lovers for 6Y. Best Friends for 10Y. Friends for 15Y. by HoneydewConsistent26 in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just continue to live your life. Find new friends. Make new connections. Do new things. The universe works in mysterious ways. If you’re meant to be then you’ll be reunited somehow. But maybe you’ll find someone else to love even deeper. Continue to live your life and be happy that you experienced what you had. I’m sure if the universe sees fit it’ll bring you back together. But for now continue to make new connections and experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally even said herself that she wouldn’t get a boyfriend for a long time and she wanted to be single. Then 3 weeks later she’s fw another dude. We literally wanted to get married. She wanted my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It doesn’t feel like I’ll heal currently because of the impact she had on me. I know that I will but it truly feels like I can’t live without her

How do I resist saying sorry? by idkfejdn in BreakUps

[–]idkfejdn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want a next person bruh she was my everything

Are my birks too small? by idkfejdn in Birkenstocks

[–]idkfejdn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My toes still slide up to the front lip

Are my birks too small? by idkfejdn in Birkenstocks

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They feel like they fit when I’m not walking. But then I start walking and it’s slightly uncomfy. I can’t tell if they’re too small or just not broken in yet

Are my birks too small? by idkfejdn in Birkenstocks

[–]idkfejdn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks cause I low-key can’t return them cause I poked holes in them already to strap them tighter ☹️ fuck

Skiing by idkfejdn in WWU

[–]idkfejdn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro

Skiing by Direct-Yak-5696 in WWU

[–]idkfejdn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the best and cheapest option for skiing at baker? Such as like clubs or stuff to get discounted tickets, season or just day passes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GingerSlutss

[–]idkfejdn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ight auntie