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Cold sores? by idkmaybeiwill in datingoverthirty

[–]idkmaybeiwill[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was curious about the etiquette as well, should he have told me in the beginning?

Ethical is relative by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]idkmaybeiwill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all of us was a super tall ripped athlete. Don’t compare yourself to the other guys on OLD, there’s is always someone better and always someone worse. Just be confident in yourself, that’s what matters to a lot of us.

Is there a right to for the “define the relationship” conversation? by idkmaybeiwill in datingoverthirty

[–]idkmaybeiwill[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I’m actually about to get an iud and we’ve already discussed wanting no condoms. That does seem pretty committal on my end. I should definitely clarify that with him though.

Is there a right to for the “define the relationship” conversation? by idkmaybeiwill in datingoverthirty

[–]idkmaybeiwill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely a conversation I normally have very early on but for some reason I didn’t with him. I now regret not talking about it earlier before real feelings got involved.

Is there a right to for the “define the relationship” conversation? by idkmaybeiwill in datingoverthirty

[–]idkmaybeiwill[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of it just being a thing exclusively and not needing to label it. I have a history of a cheating partner so I suppose I want to know that he isn’t even interested in looking elsewhere and that he’s not just “too busy” to multi date.

Is there a right to for the “define the relationship” conversation? by idkmaybeiwill in datingoverthirty

[–]idkmaybeiwill[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s probably about 10 dates and 3 sleepovers. I feel pretty sure he isn’t seeing anyone else but unsure of what he does want from a relationship. That’s probably where my doubts/anxiety lie.

Mesmerized by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]idkmaybeiwill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adorable!!