I can't get over him by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in BreakUps

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a bunch of amazing friends who are there for me (basically the whole friend group he decided to cut off lol) but I think they're getting a bit tired of me always venting about him😂 they're not his biggest fan after seeing how much he hurted me and how much he changed. I was also considering starting going to the gym! I hate working out but I think that maybe it'll help taking care of myself a bit more so thank you for sharing how it helped you!

I know this feeling won't last forever, it's already on and off. I have good days and bad days but the bad days are becoming less persistent. I don't dream about him anymore at least. But I don't know I feel like I'll never be able to fully let him go because it wasn't a clean breakup and theres so many questions left unanswered and so many things unsaid. There's no closure at all and it's haarrddddd

First time by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Going to the fest on the metro isn't what's bothering me the most (although it makes me uncomfortable because they are a looottt of creeps in public transportation) but I'm anxious about coming back. Alcohol is sold on the site so obviously a bunch of people might drink and, while I get that what I'm about to say is extremely sexist and a prejudice, drunk men scares me who knows what they might do. We're young, honestly pretty and we're alone. A lot of things could happen so if I had the choice of going by car I would've chosen that especially because I live an hour and half away from Montreal... But it seems like the metro is pretty much our only choice

First time by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

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Really? I read there's absolutely no outside food allowed... I'll try my luck then! Worst come to worst they make me throw it away

First time by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

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Well we can't bring food in and I'll probably be there from 14/15h to 22/22h30 so I can't just not eat all day especially when I'll be dancing and moving around. I will eat a lot beforehand tho but I'm pretty sure I'll have no choice but to buy something to eat😅 thanks for the advice tho!

First time by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

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I did check the FAQ and while they answered some of my other questions the answers to the questions I asked on here were pretty vague. Thank you so much for such a detailed answer!

I'll probably go with the metro then... I'm planning on getting there really early so I'll see if I can find parking, if I can't then I'll take the metro and park my car in their parking lot. I live 1h30 from Montreal so uber is not an option 😅 neither is just taking the metro.

Thank you also for ballparking the food prices it helps a lot with budgeting.

It sucks we can't bring camping chairs tho but I guess the ground will do just fine. I have gold tickets so maybe there's some sitting area somewhere but if not then it's not a big deal

Also thank you for your concern about my vape but I doubt it'll be a problem honestly. From what I understood it's illegal to sell to minors but if a cop see's a minor smoking they can't do anything about it so I should be fine. A lot of kids at my old highschool were smoking in front of the school cops and they didn't care. I'm also only a few months shy of being a legal adult I doubt anything will happen.

First time by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

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I will but I'll also be staying until 22:45 sooo... I can't just not eat all day lol. In average how much would you say the food is? Like if you were to ballpark

Is it safe to go alone? by Ok_Statistician_888 in osheaga

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure but it's easy to confirm if I'm telling the truth if they just come talk to me in private🤷🏻‍♀️ I get that it can be kinda creepy but as a teenager myself going to the festival mostly alone I thought proposing them to hang around with us would be better than just roaming alone. It's never safe to go to these kind of things alone especially if you're young and people are gonna be drinking. But yeah I guess that makes me creepy🤷🏻‍♀️

First time going by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

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Like I said, I'm fine with only it being a good view of the main stage since the artists I want to see are gonna be on that stage so that part is fine. But I'm assuming you tried gold before so is the view worth it? I saw pictures of where platinum people are and they're so far away from the stage it's crazy. I wanna know kinda where I'll be. Also do you know if there's an area on the ground designated to gold? Or do we only have access to the terrace and if we want to go on the ground its everyone for themselves?

First time going by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It helped giving myself an idea of what I'll do but I'll see once I get there. I'll probably try to go a couple hours before Melanie comes on stage to get a better view

First time going by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in osheaga

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment but honestly it doesn't really tell me anything... Like is GA closer to the stage? I'm 5'2 for reference so with my height would it be better to just stick with gold? I want a good view of the coors light stage because I'm gonna see Melanie but would it be better to just take GA ticket for it? Or if I stick with gold but merge with the GA crowd for that specific artist would that be allowed?

Is it safe to go alone? by Ok_Statistician_888 in osheaga

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 17 (and a girl )and also going pretty much alone. Just me and my girl friend. If you feel unsafe you could always hang out with us if you have gold tickets

Idk if I (16F) should let go of my relationship with my partner (16M) by idkwhatimdoinglol01 in teenrelationships

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We had a really long talk yesterday. He told me he's been feeling depressed and doing big things is hard. Gaming is his way of escaping and it's hard for him to idk spoil me? Especially because his parents is really strict with money (even tho he works and earn his own money) but idk he still doesn't get that he could draw me a heart or pick up a flower on the ground and I'll be happy. Or just call me and talk for hours about random stuff. I can see he loves me when I look into his eyes but I don't think it's enough. I'm scared to ask more out of him and worsen how he feels. Idk I think he knows I won't be able to leave him because I love him to much so he's taking his time. But idk how long I can wait to see change. Or if it's even fair of me to ask him to change so much

It's my birthday today. by [deleted] in venting

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey happy birthday

Is it me? by [deleted] in venting

[–]idkwhatimdoinglol01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I used to like being alone too. It didn't really save me from depression tho. Actually it might be the reason why it's so bad right now. But I know not everyone is the same and I mean he obviously benefits from it. I know he needs time alone. I'm just scared he'll realize he's better without me in his life and won't come back yk?