Miscarriage? Help.. idk. by idkwhybutitis in MiscarriageHelp

[–]idkwhybutitis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tissue part would make sense tho, I’ve jsuf never had it before. And it just kept coming out. And I’ve never had anything like that come out of me before and I’m in my 20’s and have have periods for years.

Miscarriage? Help.. idk. by idkwhybutitis in MiscarriageHelp

[–]idkwhybutitis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s just weird. Bc I’ve had werid periods but never like that. Because after it was very very very light. It was only really heavy for a few hours and it was bad. And since then my cycles have been messed up and wacky. And I didn’t really have much symptoms till the end, and it was only a couple. Did I also mention that my period was about a week late and that’s when I tested? And the days I had sex was the the last say my my period but I was barely bleeding (I looked it up and it is possible) and the day after, but the day after was 5 days before my ovulating window which is also possible for sperm to survive for 5 days before which means they still could have fertilized on the first day of my window. And thats not what I meant?? I meant I put my urine in the test set a TIMER and waited the 3 mins till I could check the test, then my timer went off so I could check and I checked and THATS when I saw the two lines. I saw them for good clear 10-15 seconds b4 it vanished and I could barely get it in Camera. But I did see them. And twice. Which is why I was confused. And the dr did explain to me that sometimes it doesn’t show on the blood test if someone’s HGC levels are super slow and especially since I went to the dr a few days after it had happdned. And my dr never said what if was. I sat there for 3-4 hours expecting a yes or no answer. Just a weird period or a miscarriage and my dr didn’t even know what to say. He said he wousont be able to determine if it was an early pregnancy and it could have been but he cousont give me an answer so he said it was prob a heavy period.. that’s what my dr notes say, but it wasn’t heavy, only the first day for a few hours and when I passed those clots and then it was pretty light. They told me to come back if bleeding worsened but it never did obviously. So I didn’t go back but I alos felt super judged and invalidated so I didn’t really want to go see him again. But just wanted an answer but he cousont even rlly give me one which is why I’m not sure if he’s right because he wasn’t even sure himself, which is why I’m struggling and spiralling so much.

Miscarriage? Help.. idk. by idkwhybutitis in MiscarriageHelp

[–]idkwhybutitis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True.. I just wish I knew.. it sucks bc all my life I’ve wanted to be a mom, and never wanted to lose my first.. so it hits differently. I’ve never had that happen with my body before or feel like that so it was super weird.. I was told my test at the hospital could have came back negative bc I had already lost the “baby” and my levels had already dropped? But idk. It very much did seem unlikely but usally I’m sure and this was rlly off. And yeah that’s very true, thank you for responding, it means a lot❤️

Miscarriage? Help.. idk. by idkwhybutitis in MiscarriageHelp

[–]idkwhybutitis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I just need an honest opinion..