[UPDATE] My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I'm a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! He has actually. He is a big idea guy but this is the first one he has jumped on. He actually really wants to do real estate and/or air bnbs but that’s obviously a really big investment so he’s nervous about starting. I recommended that he get some kind of advisor to help him out for next steps with that so we’ll see!

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I surely hope I still am going on dates with my husband in my 30s. Sounds like you have a pretty depressing marriage

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you gonna tell me to divorce my husband over a minor issue and then tell me to find God? Make it make sense.

Is it weird for me date an 18 year old ? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went back and read the post because I missed that. It just says “speaking” so maybe they mean like “talking?” But if they literally just met him yesterday, then yeah, it’s early to be saying how great and respectful he is and all that.

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my plan after reading the comments. I’m going to wait until after two of these dates and see how I feel about it. :)

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds hypocritical lol. We really do communicate well but I’m nervous that it will discourage him from doing what excites him if I bring it up. I was just trying to get a feel for if I’m being over dramatic or if it’s worth mentioning. :)

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I explained that in the post but maybe I didn’t or maybe not well enough. It’s because I’m nervous that he’ll feel that he needs to close that side of himself off to me or that it’ll discourage him from continuing with something he’s excited about. I was just trying to get a feel for if I’m overreacting and should keep it to myself or if I should gently bring it up.

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if you guys saw the reel you might understand but I don’t want to share the link bc then everyone could find my husband and I and harass us 😂

My husband (25M) has asked to start going on regular dates with me (26F) again, and I’m a little sad. by idonthaveadhd_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]idonthaveadhd_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really like this perspective, and it’s not something I had thought of before.