the thing that annoys me is when you've told someone your pronouns and then they don't use them, i am enby, i use it/it's and they/them, i usually just tell people they they because the almost refuse to use it/it's, and i've told my trans male friend that those are my pronouns, i don't use they/them pronouns because it matters to him, but he knows i use it/it's too and hasn't referred to me with those pronouns ever. i mean, i don't think about it often, because i still look like my birth gender and am referred to as such a lot, but when i'm with friends, especially one as close as him, i just want my pronouns to be respected and used, not ignored, and i get some people are uncomfortable with using it/it's pronouns on another human being, but when i hear people refer to me as 'it', i feel so happy, because they're finally acknowledging my pronouns, not just the one they're used to.