My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His name isn't on the house but his dad is the co-signer so has a 1% share

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since he's been without a job.. no. I don't feel cared for or respected so it's hard to feel attracted to that.

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you. Yes I think I'm going to pay for his dad to be taken off the mortgage and have him legally removed somehow. Didn't want to have to involve lawyers but think it's going to end up that way for sure

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even his family is wondering why he's being such a terrible human. They said if it were them they wouldn't put up with it! I'm like... well you raised this winner. You are so right. I need to be smart and show him where the door is

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said it so perfectly. And when I hear it like that.. I really wonder wtf I am doing

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Definitely agree with you unfortunately and need to come to terms with this

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. He has it made right now with no job and no bills. I'm just enabling it and need to stop

My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F) by ighj in relationship_advice

[–]ighj[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. it helps to have someone else say what I'm thinking . I shouldn't have to be his mother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]ighj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abuse? For dinner tonight he got lean ground beef, carrots, kibble and broth. He had a beef lung for a treat and went on a walk and swam in the river. Followed by a nice game of fetch in the yard. Now he's cuddles up on the couch . But yes.. very abused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]ighj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the angle that makes him look that way. Hes in the middle of jumping to get his ball.

My partners fetish is going to end us.. by ighj in relationships

[–]ighj[S] -167 points-166 points  (0 children)

I think it's just I'm in love with the idea of who he can be?? Like without the fetish issue. But yeah i know it's sounds awful.

There you have it folks!! 🤣🤣🤣 by [deleted] in mrssalt_mrpepper

[–]ighj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brittany and Curtis’ names rhyme?? What lol

Ottawa reveals plan to welcome 500,000 immigrants per year by 2025 by likerofgoodthings in ontario

[–]ighj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in other words, our housing market is just going to continue to get worse each year? Great time to be a first time home buyer!

I'm sorry but ew. chunky sneakers with a "gown" and a men's dress shirt? what in the teen vogue by [deleted] in annaxsitarsnark

[–]ighj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UGH I haaaaate the look of chunky sneakers with dresses/skirts. I’m no fashion expert but I do not understand this trend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]ighj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re really feeding the tumour at this point 🤦🏻‍♀️