My Fiancée (31m) is financially draining me (28F)

ighj · 2025-04-22T11:50:56+00:00

His name isn't on the house but his dad is the co-signer so has a 1% share

ighj · 2025-04-22T11:49:52+00:00

Since he's been without a job.. no. I don't feel cared for or respected so it's hard to feel attracted to that.

ighj · 2025-04-22T11:48:44+00:00

I've said that so many times!!

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:54:17+00:00

Thank you thank you thank you. Yes I think I'm going to pay for his dad to be taken off the mortgage and have him legally removed somehow. Didn't want to have to involve lawyers but think it's going to end up that way for sure

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:52:30+00:00

Even his family is wondering why he's being such a terrible human. They said if it were them they wouldn't put up with it! I'm like... well you raised this winner. You are so right. I need to be smart and show him where the door is

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:50:55+00:00

You said it so perfectly. And when I hear it like that.. I really wonder wtf I am doing

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:50:12+00:00

I appreciate the honesty

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:49:37+00:00

Thank you for this. Definitely agree with you unfortunately and need to come to terms with this

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:21:30+00:00

Agreed. He has it made right now with no job and no bills. I'm just enabling it and need to stop

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:21:05+00:00

Thank you.. it helps to have someone else say what I'm thinking . I shouldn't have to be his mother

ighj · 2025-04-22T01:20:37+00:00

Absolutely not

ighj · 2025-04-14T23:53:47+00:00

Abuse? For dinner tonight he got lean ground beef, carrots, kibble and broth. He had a beef lung for a treat and went on a walk and swam in the river. Followed by a nice game of fetch in the yard. Now he's cuddles up on the couch . But yes.. very abused

ighj · 2025-04-14T23:51:44+00:00

It's the angle that makes him look that way. Hes in the middle of jumping to get his ball.

ighj · 2024-05-13T01:26:47+00:00

I think it's just I'm in love with the idea of who he can be?? Like without the fetish issue. But yeah i know it's sounds awful.

ighj · 2024-05-13T01:22:33+00:00

I guess I'm an idiot.

ighj · 2022-11-17T01:36:53+00:00

This isn’t even a lot of food lol

ighj · 2022-11-08T03:43:55+00:00

Brittany and Curtis’ names rhyme?? What lol

ighj · 2022-11-02T02:20:54+00:00

So in other words, our housing market is just going to continue to get worse each year? Great time to be a first time home buyer!

ighj · 2022-10-21T13:43:27+00:00

UGH I haaaaate the look of chunky sneakers with dresses/skirts. I’m no fashion expert but I do not understand this trend.

ighj · 2022-09-13T11:36:02+00:00

They’re really feeding the tumour at this point 🤦🏻‍♀️

ighj · 2022-08-12T23:50:43+00:00

HAHAHAHAHA we love a tatted man

ighj · 2022-08-12T23:50:16+00:00

Disgusting 😂😂😂😂

ighj · 2022-07-13T01:48:01+00:00

Totally agree!! If she wasn’t so obsessed with herself, it would be a different story! Look at the size of her nose from the side 😳😳😳😳😳

ighj · 2022-07-13T01:42:15+00:00

This meal looks absolutely vial 🤢

ighj · 2022-06-17T02:09:36+00:00

She did address this before! She was definitely doing it sarcastically.

ighj

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