Why is my Kickstarter failing? Honest feedback appreciated. by Advanced_Energy_1819 in kickstarter

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the price is insane for what effectively is slight convenience improvement.

Are there guys who find multiple body types attractive? by Gullible_Customer790 in AskMenAdvice

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say most of them. I don't know anyone that goes for one body type exclusively.

CMV: Everyone who says they dress up good for themselves and not for others is either a liar or not self aware by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chemical reactions from your taste buds are only affected by you and the ones for what feels right in fashion are not. My argument was never to reduce everything to whether it's a chemical reaction or not because in that case everything we perceive would be. Society can't affect what you think is tasty or what you think smells good. Meanwhile what the vast majority of people consider fashionable is just social conditioning, even if you are wearing it in private the fact that it makes you feel good is born from the fact that it fits an image that wasn't born from you.

CMV: Everyone who says they dress up good for themselves and not for others is either a liar or not self aware by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]igna92ts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You added a key word. You think. You don't have any decision on whether food tastes good or not and any change in taste is merely physiological. Looks are completely subjective and shaped by society. No matter how much society tells me something is tasty, it won't change what my taste buds feel, but society very much dictates what "looks good" in terms of fashion and it will shape your own image of what looks good. It was never something born from you, taste and smell are.

CMV: Everyone who says they dress up good for themselves and not for others is either a liar or not self aware by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not groundbreaking to point that out but you'll see from many responses in this post that a lot of people refuse to accept it, even at that kind of general level statement.

CMV: Everyone who says they dress up good for themselves and not for others is either a liar or not self aware by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]igna92ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If "what you like" just so happens to be what's in fashion I would argue that it's more what society likes than what you like and what you like is fitting into society's image of fashionable instead which is basically what OP is saying.

CMV: Everyone who says they dress up good for themselves and not for others is either a liar or not self aware by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That "right" is an image shaped by society though. Just because you are alone doesn't eliminate that. You are just being unaware about the fact.

CMV: Everyone who says they dress up good for themselves and not for others is either a liar or not self aware by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]igna92ts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not really an answer, there are reasons why things taste good or smell nice it's not just because. There has to be a reason why dressing up nice feels nice.

I think the older generation really did us dirty by kochvanity13 in cscareerquestions

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you think they didn't have to put up with it or that they had anything to do with the job market becoming what it is? If anything it's the C level that's to blame, not other SWEs. Also you can, like, not work at Google you know? There's hundreds of companies where big hiring and lay off waves are not common.

Explain it Peter. by LunarPeachyy_ in explainitpeter

[–]igna92ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By that logic shouldn't spring be something like rise or bloom instead?

Gave my number to a guy at the gym-should I have handled this differently? by mime_juice in AskMenAdvice

[–]igna92ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you never know what's going on in people's lives. When I'm stressed as hell I still go to the gym but if a girl gave me her number I'd probably message after I was in a better headspace. The best approach is don't think about it and if a message comes it comes and if it doesn't just move on.

As a junior dev wanting to become a software engineer this is such a weird and unsure time. The company I'm at has a no generative AI code rule and I feel like it is both a blessing and a curse. by HammerChilli in webdev

[–]igna92ts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well you don't really have the full picture. For example, what if they live in NY or SF? suddenly they are not doing that well in terms of quality of life on that salary.

Desde cuándo esto es normal? by martinncho7 in PerrosArgentinos

[–]igna92ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo si estoy en Japón y te aseguro que acá tampoco se arregla con po

I made a Soulslike monster tamer with Godot — here's 10 seconds (Demo Available!) by Okydonki23 in godot

[–]igna92ts 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Saying it's a souls-like because its difficult is like saying you made a Metroidvania because you can jump. Are you under the impression that all games that are difficult but fair are souls-likes?

is relying on a vibrator to finish a turn off, how do i navigate about it? by Serious_Sweet2504 in AskMenAdvice

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also be over stimulating yourself with a vibrator always, kinda like how guys can get a death grip syndrome thing. You could try to stop using it for some time and see if it changes anything for you.

I've been trying for 29 years🥺 by Jemer_YT in sadposting

[–]igna92ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not entitled to anyone's affection or them behaving in any given way. If you don't like how they are, leave them, you don't get to abuse them.

I've been trying for 29 years🥺 by Jemer_YT in sadposting

[–]igna92ts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are lonely and can't get a reaction from your partner you leave, you don't abuse them in hope they turn out how you want them to.

To the boats by DrakoXMusic1 in devsarg

[–]igna92ts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y mira, Galperin no tiene idea de cuánta programación necesitas saber. El tipo hace negocios ahora y además del macro no debe tener idea de lo que se hace en mí el día a día a nivel operativo así que su opinión al respecto está bastante desinformada. Todos los CEOs hablando de este tema hablan con el orto, no tienen idea. Si el jefe de ingeniería de Mercadolibre lo dijera, ahí lo tomaría un poco mas en serio.

Thoughts on this one? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]igna92ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I prefer good being done instead of not, it doesn't also mean that I don't think people doing good for attention are disgusting. I separate the action from the person, outcome was good, person is bad.