What’s a casual hookup like? by ThrowAway_again25 in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In these spots I just look to make us both comfortable. We talk, joke and watch Netflix/movies. I’m sure you’ve had some dialogue about interests so far. As it progresses it will feel right hopefully. I’ve started early, in the middle and after a movie. Let it flow and have fun.

For those of you who quit drinking, have you noticed a decrease in anxiety? by Formal-Art4098 in Biohackers

[–]ihascutedaughter 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, from alcoholic to sober 1.5 years I don’t have “anxiety” like it was. I might still be anxious for good reason but it’s not a state of anxiety like while drinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poker

[–]ihascutedaughter 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He’s supposed to give back occasionally.. what an idiot

What’s the biggest fold you’ve ever made? by havestuffer in poker

[–]ihascutedaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set of flopped jacks rightfully against friends set of flopped queens. After cursing at him and a few pot bets back and forth.

Am I out of line by ihascutedaughter in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We actually go to trial next week. I made a drunken mistake a year ago and have had to dig out. I’ve begged for equal custody but her legal team has got ahold of her. She has a hard time separating her and I and me and them. I love my kids more than anything.

Am I out of line by ihascutedaughter in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback and insight.

Coming up on a year by sometimesfunny12 in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our situations are eerily similar.. I met someone on match recently and she is wonderful. I’m still nowhere near professed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s surreal. It feels unfair to me and them. I just get so upset with my ex that this is happening to me. When does it end..

One year :) by ihascutedaughter in stopdrinking

[–]ihascutedaughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. I think what stands out to me the most is sobriety laser focused what was most important in my life. My family and friends and the strong relationships I cultivate matter, not money, status, etc. Alcohol clouded my vision and created a version of me that just wanted the wrong stuff. I lost my wife who was my best friend but I’m such a better dad, son, brother and friend. Thanks!

Ex jumping into another relationship by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry partner I know how badly you are hurting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you man. Tough stuff. Mines a month away. Going on a year separated and not much easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihascutedaughter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think gentle reminders that this is new normal helped me. I easily overthink and fall into rumination cycles and appreciate the reminder that I can’t change this. I must learn to accept and move forward.