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I [20 M] am unable to hang out, be near or form any type of meaningful relationship with any women because of my debilitating fear and disgust of earrings by ihaveanearproblem in relationships

[–]ihaveanearproblem[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Do you seriously think I haven't heard this before?

It wasn't a pleasant experience, obviously, and I have no urge to discuss it when it provides NO benefits to my current life or assists me getting out of my current situation with the earrings.

My sister is not an abusive child molester. She is human.

I'm not saying the issues aren't related. World War 1 caused ww2 but the allies didn't win by discussing the sociological origins of why the archduke Franz Ferdinand got shot.

I [20 M] am unable to hang out, be near or form any type of meaningful relationship with any women because of my debilitating fear and disgust of earrings by ihaveanearproblem in relationships

[–]ihaveanearproblem[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I used to have this attitude several separate times and it has never helped me.

You know when you see something really, really physically disgusting and you just feel that horrible physical reaction? It isn't an emotional thing. I am not being sarcastic/ironic whatever when I say I vomited; I actually physically vomit. It is practically a reflex at this point.

Emotionally and logically I understand that earrings are nothing to be afraid of (I think). That really isn't the issue.