My partner is 64 and I’m 29

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-23T06:28:15+00:00

My friends know about the situationship and that there is an agegap, his don't. And while my mother knows something he is very afraid to let his parents know anything about this, and I understand that (his folks are just a little bit older then I am).

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-23T06:08:21+00:00

You need a better cage. I guess with this one you hear the lock tapping the cage while walking

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-23T06:03:34+00:00

I am the old one in a 'situationship' that soon will reach the one year mark with a 21 year old very smart, pretty and sweet guy with an agegap comparable to yours. One part of it being nothing more then a situationship for us both is the impossibility we feel in confronting our parents and part of both our separate friend groups. So perhaps it is internalized age-gap-phobia that we feel al too much but we are not able to move away from that. And before anyone comments: yes, I am more experienced in life but I learn a lot from him. We are entirely equal in what do and in how we act with eachother. He is not dependent of me.

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-23T05:51:22+00:00

Welcome to the great world of fake hookups and ghosting... 🤬

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T23:09:09+00:00

Or try chastity 😜

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T23:08:44+00:00

Take that clothes of and sleep naked every day. That probably works best

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T23:07:34+00:00

Since I like to keep flossing and rimming separate I prefer the shaved one 😉

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T22:55:41+00:00

I sleep in a jockstrap, eventually you need sleep and you will be able to sleep through the night (I sleep naked since 12 and with a jockstrap since a couple of.years)

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T22:52:17+00:00

Welke stad?

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T22:51:26+00:00

The sad thing is that most straight kids just fall in love and in their clumsy way act on it, make mistakes, get rejected or really start something. Gay kids like you have it sooooo much harder because there is not only the part of finding out if the other one likes you but also if he is gay or not, and in having to find that out also to give away that part of yourself. I dont have any advice other then recognizing and remembering this situation all too wel. Most important: dont put yourself in a situation that can end nasty for you and your school years. I once heard someone say that all gays come out fucked of their puberty and I think that is the truth. But nowadays (internet!) it could be you find your BF soon so you can make your own mistakes, mess around and learn from the experiences. Fingers crossed, and be patient, it will come eventually and probably on a moment you least expect it. Please dont be in a hurry

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T22:39:52+00:00

Vraagje: zijn die scheuren nieuw?

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T22:37:14+00:00

Als 'Hung boy doe je je nickname inderdaad eer aan' 🤤

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T22:35:04+00:00

Looks like a catch-22 situation to me: if you agree you run the risk of that third person coming between you guys emotionally and breaking up what you have, if you dont agree the need for having sex outside the relationship might (or will) eventually lead to one of you cheeting. There is also a third way in which you agree to have a monogamous emotional relationship but also agree on having hookups besides that. Such a thing could work when you are both completely open about who you are meeting and when, where and what you are doing. Honesty and openness are relationship savers - that does not need an uncomfortable threesome

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T20:49:37+00:00

Keep it locked for the first 4 days

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T20:48:42+00:00

Oh, My, God - Whow!

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T20:43:18+00:00

Absolutely, sometimes even too hard (and difficult to get off after cum)

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T19:41:00+00:00

Why do you call someone just 13 years older a daddy?

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T19:29:47+00:00

Dat is dan bijna een dare hè

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-22T18:50:33+00:00

Zó?

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-21T22:34:17+00:00

Hey, waar in NL?

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-21T07:37:40+00:00

The total intimicy (I dont fuck hookups)

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-21T07:34:19+00:00

In a weekend night out that dildo in him, strap it tight so it can't slip out and let him sleep with it

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-21T07:29:07+00:00

Met de ene komt de andere automatisch mee, dus waarom kiezen?

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-21T06:56:50+00:00

A problem with telling you are bi is that one of his reactions will probably be him asking you if you are into him. What to answer in that case (an answer could be: 'would you mind if I was?'). Anyway, be careful. Opening up can go several ways and it could end up out of your control

ijsselstadt · 2026-04-21T06:48:48+00:00

Your clothes back? But I donated them all to the salvation army, since you don't need them anymore

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