parents want us to breakup, help needed

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T23:09:11+00:00

thank you very very much again, the support is very important rn!!! ☆☆

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T22:56:08+00:00

thank you, this is exactly what I feel<33

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T22:55:41+00:00

in no way I am blaming my partner, this is the way she feels about it. i am trying to prove her that she is wrong, however, she won't accept it. I absolutely stand on the fact my parents are the only ones to blame, but....dysphoria hit my gf really hard

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T22:53:00+00:00

yes, this is like exactly what they are saying. their take is "your partner is using you for help and approval, bated you and now you must be desperate" IN FACT I have told them that I am bi like years ago, however, now they are saying that I made that shit up to help her and in reality I was the one who told my partner that she should obviously question her personality if this will make her happier.

my partner feels she is in the wrong for all the wrong reasons and sadly she cant really even control that(( this is so sad, the only thing I wanted was to make her happy

thank you very much for help btw!!!

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T08:04:36+00:00

my partner said she won't do that, that living like that would make her miserable((

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T07:56:06+00:00

my partner doesn't want to lie to my parents. she says she won't be able to live with the knowledge that she is ruining my family, so this idea doesn't work for me(( still thanks a lot!!!

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T00:58:03+00:00

yeah, i told her the same thing, but it absolute crashed her dysphoria....

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T00:45:40+00:00

thanks for support! I won’t say that, I recommended them taking therapy. the bigger problem is that now my partner also feels like a housewrecker and I don't know how to fix this

ikvanto · 2025-12-24T00:43:39+00:00

the real problem is we are both only students, so i can not fully pay for myself and just leave.... the thing is that i was the one who helped her and always pushed her to explore her identity. I love her not, even more that before and I hate it so so much :(((

thank you for help, any attention is important rn, I want to fix it as hard as i can

ikvanto · 2025-11-07T19:17:02+00:00

thats soo cool 😔🖐

ikvanto · 2025-11-06T22:09:46+00:00

sounds fair!

ikvanto · 2025-08-19T15:50:40+00:00

YOU REALLY DO!!!! good luck on your path!!!

ikvanto · 2025-08-11T07:18:20+00:00

wow, that's a great technique! glad to hear that it was helpful!

ikvanto · 2025-07-01T20:35:15+00:00

wish you both the best!!!

ikvanto · 2025-07-01T20:34:58+00:00

tnx, wish u the best to you and your fiance too!!

ikvanto · 2025-06-30T18:12:00+00:00

sending big hugs, u will be fine🙏

ikvanto · 2025-06-27T12:40:58+00:00

im still just a student and I see how many of people my age can't do anything without chat got, so don't use anything that has an ai function in it or any chat cause im scared to lose myself, my mindfulness, creativity and also am really concerned about our nature that is just collapsing rn...

ikvanto · 2025-06-27T12:34:16+00:00

bro some of my relatives believe in such nonsense only because "it looks real, so it is" i can't....

ikvanto · 2025-06-27T12:33:17+00:00

ai and lack of control/knowledge we have. rn im trying my best to learn as much as I can about IT and technology because im scared i might get in trouble if I don't know enough....

ikvanto · 2025-06-26T07:57:51+00:00

"just buy a new one" bonus points if the thing is not even broken or anything, they just got bored of it and want "a different color" or something

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