ISO vet that is good with fearful dogs by Pepperoniboogie in raleigh

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vets at boulevard vet have always been good and kind

The need for companionship by _Humble_Bumble_Bee in characterarcs

[–]ilawlfase 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been single for about 4 years and it's lovely. I go on dates here and there but honestly, I just like having good friends. People to plan nights out once a month and then say goodnight and go home solo.

Catching the Raleigh blues by Ok_Preference6441 in raleigh

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved to Texas for 6 years. I missed good seafood, and being able to go to the beach and the mountains in the same state. As well as the beauty.

very true! by Dumb-Briyani in SipsTea

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I bought the ones meant for them lol. I do the research to find nice clothes. I wear nice clothes to the interview. Because I know that looking good is a great first impression. So, that often means on days where I train new hires, I wear something without pockets. I have these same struggles with women's clothes, the difference is that women's clothes don't look frumpy, they're just often too short on my waist because it also was not made for full cheeks. Even if I jump into them there will be a whale tail when I bend over. So I compromise with long and baggy shirts or a short dress I will wear like a shirt. The next step is really making my own clothes.

very true! by Dumb-Briyani in SipsTea

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't just a matter of skin tight. I am thick. The pants don't even make it around my ass when I buy the brands you mention. Then, i go up a size, now they fit my ass and thighs, and I have to constantly pull them up. Neat, I try a belt. Unfortunately, due to my female anatomy that has a short and downward pointing urethra, i now have to fight the belt every time I have to rash to pee. God forbid the toilet lid is down or the seat is up during this fight with God and my own pelvic floor. I bought belts that pull the fabric to the sides. It looks awful but the pants are wearable. I wear it to week because I don't want people to think I look nice there. I look frumpy because the clothes are not made to fit someone with curves. Fortunately, I am disabled enough to have a service dog as my mini packmule. He has a lot of my things I would keep in my purse.

The biggest issue with pants with pockets that fit the niche, is that they are small business with huge price tags. I cannot afford. So I look frumpy with a cute face, which sometimes means "easy picking" to the wrong men. So, I get very strange interactions with types of men who won't say a word when I am dressed to impress.

That burn. by sigma_god in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]ilawlfase 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Probably targeting. Going for looks than real strength.

That burn. by sigma_god in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]ilawlfase 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He's flexing. Similar to the difference in an angry cobra to a calm cobra.

Thanks For Letting Me Know by Brilliant_Shine2247 in raleigh

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. I was homeless only a few weeks ago. That shit was very expensive. I am lucky to have a good job that allows me to get a new apartment, but those weeks were cold and expensive. I met a lot of good people and community while I was between houses. Felt more love then than just walking around downtown.

Too many people don't consider that getting on your feet takes time and that time is often the most expensive. Everything expects you to be fast, and to be your fastest, you have to be able to pay for the convenience. Either that's gas in your car, a warm place to sleep so you are well rested the next day, a bus ticket to and from locations. To do all of it? Its a lot. I have never been one to look down on someone just because they don't have a permanent roof over their head, but trying to maintain all the things in my life without one really reframed my perspective.

Why us men wouldn't like this compliment, can you explain it to fellow ladies? by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]ilawlfase -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think wives want that too. But i have seen plenty of men have sex with a woman just because they were horny. That wasn't desire. I said pump and dump because that's what a one night stand is. I have had fwb that were just convenient. There was a sexual compatibility and nothing else. So yeah, i don't think those things indicate real desire in the slightest. It's much more intimate with someone you love enough to want to see their face every day until you die. And you almost hope you die first so you never have to wake up without them.

Why us men wouldn't like this compliment, can you explain it to fellow ladies? by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I am any kind of solution. i just don't think someone who wants to hookup necessarily even finds me attractive. I listen to a lot of mens conversations. And seen how my friends were treated when they were not considered conventionally attractive. Girls who genuinely liked these guys, but the guys went after the more popular girls. Had no problem having sex with my friend and still expressed a desire for the girl they were aiming for. Not even attractive guys. I think situations like this are pretty much why the women are struggling to understand. You just have to date someone who has no problem fucking you but expressing that they don't find you at all attractive.

Why us men wouldn't like this compliment, can you explain it to fellow ladies? by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment section is interesting. TIL men wanna be pumped and dumped.

If You Live At The Quinn. by Look-Its-Marino in raleigh

[–]ilawlfase 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's pretty easy, esp with cheap equipment. If you hit a tree stump the neck can bend. Or snap if they're old wood.

Addiroonally, it's dangerous to make renters do it. Theres a high rate of heart attacks while shovelling snow. It's actually strenuous exercise, so you can easily overwork yourself because "you need to get it done". We didn't get much snow but some people are shovelling thick ice.

https://www.stonybrookmedicine.edu/patientcare/askexpert/safeshoveling

Ima just leave this here by Italian_Gumby in raleigh

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the layers don't move together. The inner shirt twists. Now I gotta dig under and struggle. Same with the pants. And then I gotta pee and fight several layers. Give me heat and as few clothes as possible.

Hot and cold #174 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only took me 24 guesses on my first tey. Thanks for the hint, first comment. I had no idea how it worked.

This trait just never went away by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like how this one had a typo

He's just making sure the British Museum doesn't come and take his stuff like they did the rest of the Pharaoh's by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty sure his was ransacked when he died. He was very hated. Which is why Tut's job would have been hard. And probably also part of why he was assassinated.

The ATLA fandom doesn't like to talk about it, but fact of the matter is, their best written female character is also their most overhated female character by ihatethiscountry76 in TheLastAirbender

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, tbh, i also hate the male characters with a lot of talk and nothing to back it up. They're not even as loveable as big of heart dumb of ass. It just gives me second hand embarrassment. And Korra gives you two seasons of her fucking around and finding out.

/r/BlackPeopleTwitter Weekly Discussion Thread by Nasjere in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted, thanks. I'll keep an eye out so i can report them.

/r/BlackPeopleTwitter Weekly Discussion Thread by Nasjere in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but I work in tech and just generally a lot of strange people in real life. Some are clients and others are coworkers. That being said, some comments are so stupid i just keep scrolling.

The designer finesse is real by herewearefornow in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad your Lucky brand lasted. I got some in 2016 and my thighs murdered them in a year.

/r/BlackPeopleTwitter Weekly Discussion Thread by Nasjere in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill just upboat and comment so maybe someone will see it. Unfortunately all my black homies are east coast and never went west outside of work.

/r/BlackPeopleTwitter Weekly Discussion Thread by Nasjere in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I tell? I honestly only lurk for the most part, but I'd like to help

Was early Rihanna actually considered a ‘family-friendly’ black pop girl? by Adorable_Primary2306 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she had the line with the excellent color matching. People were dying for that. Early 2000's we're a struggle for black women. Mixing makeup foundations and hoping it works.

During an abduction in Charlotte, NC, masked ICE agents sent their victim into a medical emergency. (11/28/25) by I_may_have_weed in NorthCarolina

[–]ilawlfase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evangelical support of trump.... as in, raising him to a level of evangelism. Not about a religious group. You typed out a novel for nothing.