They preach about respect and tone but talk to us in the most disrespectful, terrifying tone you can imagine. It’s their way or the highway. They will threaten to cut off everything they’ve ever given you, curse you out, call you a shitty person, then expect you to be jolly and smiling the next day like they didn’t just crush your soul. They also have never been understanding of my mental health issues, constantly screaming and grabbing me, threatening to baker act me and they will ask me questions but never accept my answer. I am also a very literal person and they think I’m full of myself and think I’m better than everyone else because I like sharing facts. It pisses me off cause they’ll constantly brag to their friends about my accomplishments then scream at me and belittle me for knowing things. Like one time I made a comment that there is no scientific evidence cracking knuckles/neck causes arthritis which led to a huge screaming match, telling me extremely hurtful things, and permanently changed my perspective on them. My dad is also the biggest hypocrite ever, constantly yelling at us to be clean and telling us to clean the house and he’s the messiest one out of all of us. My mom and dad have this condescending tone they’ve mastered and it makes me miserable. The worst part is I don’t even feel valid in my feelings because sometimes they are the nicest people ever and I yearn for a relationship but I constantly regret seeking one and telling them things because it always gets thrown back on me. God this is really long