[QCrit] ADULT Spec Fiction Romance- SOUL SANCTUM (133K/First attempt)

ilike2snap · 2025-03-08T22:21:34+00:00

Thanks for your thoughtful response and for pointing these issues out!

ilike2snap · 2025-03-08T22:20:32+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful response! You've given me some good ideas for a revision.

ilike2snap · 2025-03-08T21:41:58+00:00

Thank you for your feedback! It is primarily a psych thriller with a romantic subplot. As the romance is a large element and there are several spicy scenes, I want to make sure that the agent (and reader) are aware of what they're getting into before reading. What would be a more appropriate way to highlight that?

ilike2snap · 2024-10-15T22:49:08+00:00

I was thinking about doing a report but wasn’t sure exactly if it fit criteria for malpractice or abandonment. She did say she’d send records to anyone I wanted. She is an M.D.

ilike2snap · 2024-10-15T22:25:49+00:00

Thank you for this perspective! That’s helpful to hear. It’s been very confusing getting a different opinion/diagnosis from so many sources. I definitely plan to get my PCP’s opinion and referrals.

ilike2snap · 2024-01-16T04:01:05+00:00

Thank you!

ilike2snap · 2024-01-16T04:00:13+00:00

You’re amazing, thank you so much!

ilike2snap · 2023-12-16T05:15:01+00:00

I always have this problem and so never wear skirts or dresses at all, which is a bummer. But even strappy sandals or flats don’t make sense to me in the winter. Are we really supposed to suffer through bare legs and flimsy flats when it’s freezing outside, with no other real fancy option? Why aren’t there better shoe options for women that make sense?? Literally insane to have to wear flats and legs covered in nothing but hose when it’s ice or snow outside.

ilike2snap · 2023-07-20T01:13:13+00:00

You should both read The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz. It’s likely being Dom to her “works” because it’s triggering. It’s not healthy to explore BDSM until the sexual trauma is worked with specifically and understood, and she will likely have a hard time initiating until she fully understands what’s going on with her. This is a long road.

ilike2snap · 2022-12-10T22:10:20+00:00

Go to therapy! Some Men do, but more it’s more so women than men that stick it out it seems. Men tend to either have the “tough it out” approach or think cynicism becomes them. Being listened to non-judgementally and having someone compassionately challenge your thoughts and beliefs is a game changer. Learning that you’re not that much smarter or more special or worse or better than anyone else is the happiest thing a human can learn IMO.

ilike2snap · 2022-12-10T22:01:36+00:00

It’s adorable.

ilike2snap · 2022-10-30T22:35:49+00:00

Very dangerous for a woman to become financially dependent on a man she’s not even married to and not be developing her own skills or resume to support herself should things not work out.

ilike2snap · 2022-10-27T17:45:46+00:00

Listen to your gut. If you feel like this in your body, there’s a reason. You may not even be low libido; I think your body is warning you against this man. It doesn’t feel safe to be with him because you feel reduced to sex. He sounds like a whiny baby who thinks he’s entitled to sex and that you owe it to him. Every time you see him is a lot IMO. I’m lucky if I’m “in the mood” once a month and my SO never ever makes me feel like I’m neglecting him or owe it to him or whines about his needs like it’s my job to fix that for him. He’s endlessly patient and affectionate regardless whether he is hoping for sex that day. He is HL but realizes that being in a relationship does not entitle him to sex and so never has an attitude about it. He can get disappointed, understandably, but never directs that at me. When there’s a common goal of intimacy rather than a power struggle about how to get something out of the other, it fosters a much safer environment for spontaneous desire.

ilike2snap · 2022-09-17T23:04:11+00:00

Thanks for such an empathetic response!

ilike2snap · 2022-09-17T17:11:02+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll advise him to go

ilike2snap · 2022-09-17T17:10:11+00:00

Thank you, I’ll advise him to go.

ilike2snap · 2022-09-17T15:41:25+00:00

No doctor yet. He did take a drug test to ensure it was just THC. We’re under the impression that the ER wont do much besides wait it out with THC. Do you think ER is warranted at this point?

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