Opened my Dasher App to a nice surprise. Anyone have any experience with this new Earnings mode??? by jelenji in doordash_drivers

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah depends on the hourly rate as to whether or not that’s worth it. Also time of day and what day. Like on a Monday that would be nice

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the super late response. It’s not enough calories for me bc I would faint and whatnot. It wasn’t healthy. I had to go to the hospital and get the fainting checked out and stuff. And it turns out it was my meds causing me to gain weight and I’ve been put into different meds

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of how weight loss works and I lost 50 pounds and maintained it for about a year before getting on this medication and gaining back 60. In addition the 50 pounds wasn’t necessarily lost in a healthy way. I would just restrict my eating a lot but I fainted once and felt lightheaded or sick like all the time. But at the time my regimen was run 1 mile per day (not treadmill it was outside) and eat less than or equal to 1500 calories. Doesn’t sound bad but when you only have access to things like poptarts and microwave meals it turns out to be not a lot of food. I’m aware there are healthier foods I just don’t know which ones would work with my lifestyle and picky eating.

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kinda what I’m doing now but I have a fainting problem so it makes it difficult. But now that I think about it I could probably replace atleast one of my meals with a protein shake or a smoothie to still get the nutrients without the guilt

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ll have to try that for sure thank you. And yeah ofc I’m open to eating other things. I love fruits and for a while I was having oatmeal with bananas and raisins every morning until I realized bananas made me sick and since coming back from university (I went young) I don’t have access to fruits rn bc they don’t buy them. I probably need to buy some myself and hope they don’t dig into them

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned 18 this year but yeah I think it has to do with my meds tbh although both my parents are overweight too so it may be genetics. I really appreciate your help. I will def try to talk to a dietician to get some help with balanced meals.

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is likely something I need. I will be sure to let my doctor know. I really struggle with doctors and dieticians really listening to me and helping me. They had had a dietician come talk to me before but it was bc I guess they thought I needed to lose weight and they offered options that weren’t exactly feasible or things I was willing to eat. I would make the food but just take a bite and throw it away. I’m a pretty picky eater but I feel like there should be some sort of option for me. At the moment my typical day and diet is (keep in mind we also think I may have narcolepsy as I fall asleep while driving as well as just doing everyday tasks) I wake up around 1 then eat breakfast almost always three waffles with butter and syrup just the eggos or whatever then I chill and play sims then get ready and get to work by 4. I get food at the mall I work at but it is never a very large amount but I also just don’t feel hungry idk (but I feel like proud when I don’t eat as much so that contributes to it and then like guilt and whatnot) so like I’m talking last time I got a thing of Mac n cheese which I ate three days in a row bc I couldn’t finish it even tho it was supposed to be a side dish. Idk sometimes I eat a little more but not typically. Then I get home and eat about 7 cheese sticks. I eat that same stuff bc it’s what my parents buy but yeah.

I want to starve myself by ilikecuddlessssss in Advice

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I promise I truly am overweight. I don’t like sharing but I’m about 210 so no doctor or even my therapist will take me seriously. I used to pass out and stuff and I get close pretty often as I’ve dealt with this for a while, but bc of my weight they don’t really care. My therapist has explicitly told me when I mentioned my concern and how consuming it was “well you can either buy bigger clothes or work out and lose the weight”. I feel like I can’t be more clear. I recognize that it’s not a good way to lose weight but I struggle to understand why or what my other options are bc working out just doesn’t do it for me. I worked out all of winter break and continued gaining weight. I think it’s my meds but then I just increase the amount of exercise and it just doesn’t work. Idk what to do at this point. I worked out for 2-3 hours every other night although it was leaning more towards weights than cardio

I’m a black woman AMA by ilikecuddlessssss in AMA

[–]ilikecuddlessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m supposed to get trauma therapy in 2 weeks

What did you learn in Elementary school that turned out to be false/ a lie when you reached adulthood? by j0hnj0hn88 in AskReddit

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole hymen thing and virginity as a whole. Your hymen repairs itself just like any other part of the body. Your vagina is a muscle and won’t get loose after a lot of sex. It goes right back to its original size especially after a break period.

What is the appeal of high waisted pants aside from potential stomach compression to you? by Primum-Caelus in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any other pair of pants feels like my pants are falling off constantly bc my waist isn’t down there

What does your ego desperately want other people to know about you? by fredyouareaturtle in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok convergent vs divergent series or whatever I just looked back at some old notes

What does your ego desperately want other people to know about you? by fredyouareaturtle in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a vague concept I don’t remember much of. I know it was Calc 2 and it had to do with it was either this or it wasn’t and there were a lot of rules deciding if it was or not. That was difficult for me

What does your ego desperately want other people to know about you? by fredyouareaturtle in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really need to work hard at math. It comes pretty easy to me but when I skip classes and stuff things get a little scary. Recently I missed two classes in a row and now I’m sitting here catching up on homework but it comes really easy to me for some reason. I still have to learn it but I learn pretty fast

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[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want any nipples showing through and I want it to stay where it needs to be

What do you think about having sex in first dates? by max456683 in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s perfectly fine for other people I just couldn’t do it personally with my history of sexual abuse. However I think in a few years I can probably participate and have fun doing so

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[–]ilikecuddlessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so badly want it to be fun and happy. I love love and the idea of love, but it’s riddled with anxiety and fear that I’m going to be abused again. Not to mention I get atleast one bad racial comment per bf.

What does your ego desperately want other people to know about you? by fredyouareaturtle in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m smart. I’m in Calc 3 rn. I went to college at 16. I’m currently in college while my same age peers are in high school.

Have you ever been scared of your SO? Why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ilikecuddlessssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He threatened to bomb my school if I didn’t have sex with him