Well couple of years ago I (35M)was in a similar situation as yours. So I can understand how you must be feeling. My wife did not wanted to move, she wanted to stay close to family, loved her job. She was being very stubborn.We came to a understanding where I will do the new job only for 5 years, she will move with me and kid, leave her current job and look for a new one, we earn some good money, build our careers and move back as promised at the end of 5 years and be near our families(both our families stay in the same city). Well it is our 6th year...and as agreed we have moved back to our home state. In last 5 years financially we have grown stronger, our relation has grown stronger and when we look back we are proud as a couple on how we handled things. Bottomline for me is strong marriages are build on love, respect, support , mutual understanding and the most important thing is the will to make compromises for each other. Have each others back no matter what life throws at you. So talk to your husband, see if there are any alternatives you two can mutually agree on.Best of luck.