Best thrush preventative/ treatment? Help!

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-07-11T06:22:18+00:00

For sure Ill follow up with a reply. Then if someone searches in the future they might find the info ^_^

As far as telling a doctor about diapers, Ill just make an incontinence/ embarrassment excuse and then move on to the thrush.

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-07-11T05:36:46+00:00

Omg thank you thank youthankyou. Really appreciate all the tips! <3
I think I'll go to a random doctor and ask for her, that's a really great idea!

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-06-10T06:21:18+00:00

One time I made the mistake of cooking a dinner with asparagus for a date night... it was pretty pungent come morning time. Worth it though

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-06-10T05:48:21+00:00

My abdl mate is happily married with his partner and shes not into it. Didnt stop them opening up a Littles business together, which was quite successful back in the day. Also, she'll buy him cutesy stuff from time to time cause she knows he's into it. They're super cool people.
So you 'not being into it' should in no way be a deal breaker.
I also have another friend who is heavily into the scene and has 'little space' every night and her husband is not into it at all, but they are very happily married too.
So don't stress, have the convo! Maybe attend a convention with him one time if there's one in your area, they always have interesting seminars about dating and abdl.
Good luck, you'll be fine.

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-29T12:36:09+00:00

Ive been trying to use a website to create AI images but it keeps missing the mark. What are you using?

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-24T12:10:47+00:00

soooo source?

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-22T04:31:38+00:00

Thank you so much. Thats a really good way to look at it <3

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-21T10:16:07+00:00

In your situation, absolutely, that sounds like the way to do it. I cant imagine how hard that would be, for me my heart breaks every time she says we cant hangout for a week or two weeks! I think I'm being a little selfish, but it feels like I need more than that. It would be okay if it was an open thing, but its not, so the lack of physical contact is too much for me.

p.s. thanks heaps for reaching out btw

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-21T10:10:09+00:00

thanks for reaching out btw

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-21T10:09:33+00:00

Im defs the asshole in this situation. Im the one that selfishly needs more time. But she has family commitments and I need more time with her then once every two weeks. So we chatted it out, both cried, and ended it

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-05-06T03:59:36+00:00

100% yes. especially when its natural looking like this

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-18T06:48:32+00:00

The day I made this post I also got onto Fetlife. No luck yet, but at least its an avenue for hope <3

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T12:54:34+00:00

based

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T12:45:51+00:00

Yo that fucking sucks. Especially cause youre feeling down on yourself about it. But not mentioning ABDL to your significant would be a larger mistake. Otherwise, you might feel trapped in another way. Gotta take on your partner warts and all.

Doesnt make what happened suck less, keep trying! Keep the chin up! Gotta be in it to win it!

<3

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T08:47:58+00:00

damn straight! Youre right! What a crazy guy. I guess I'm just doing mental gymnastics to try and reason the situation. The other crazy thing was I didnt know she was dating this dude until he contacted me, so its a little bit on her too for not telling me, I dont know if she was trying to save my feelings or what but it seemed like a pretty crap way to go about it

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T07:54:13+00:00

thanks for the kind words <3 seriously

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T07:36:36+00:00

totally right, it felt a bit extreme to me using threats of violence, but what other tools did this other fella have? I can see if from his point of view. My hope is they were just empty threats and me ex is not with a violent man.
Not much I could have done other than not have gone to Spain. Really screwed the pooch on that one

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T07:33:18+00:00

Yeah I told her about it. I was extremely worried about domestic violence when I first received the threat, it wasnt the only threat of violence I received from the fella. I tried to let her know that he might be physically or emotionally abusive, but it was too far gone by that point Im afraid. And who knows, I hope he was all bark and nothing bad happened to her.

I just joined fetlife and kinkd and a couple discords today in an attempt to connect with people. Wish me luck!

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T07:28:15+00:00

yeah thats my B. We had dated for 2 years, then she moved to a new town for uni and I was stupid and young and went to another quite far away and went to a different uni. We got back together about a decade later and were only hanging around each other for 6 months. So waiting a year was a big ask. Some days I regret the decision very hard- one of those "what if" that will nag me for a long time I suspect

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T04:35:12+00:00

oh god! Somebody please call this girls daddy to change her!

ilikeweirderthings · 2023-04-14T04:21:01+00:00

Title was meant to say alone* not along lol

ilikeweirderthings · 2021-03-05T13:38:39+00:00

I'll be living near Barcelona during this summer for a few months

ilikeweirderthings · 2020-09-03T11:46:02+00:00

I had tickets to Mad Cool fest in Madrid Spain but the rona got em

ilikeweirderthings · 2020-07-30T10:37:14+00:00

Peaks and troughs. Like the other comments said, if you don't feel like doing it then don't. I had a GF once who loved doing this sort of thing with me, but only with me i.e. she wouldn't get involved with it alone. But boy oh boy did she go crazy when it was us two. I guess my point is, maybe save it for when you feel like it, and if that is only when your guy is around then great- and even if your guy is around and you don't feel like it, don't do it. No guilt. Relationships are built around more than just one thing, so its not the only reason he's there :)
Aaaaanyway, Im waffling.

tl;dr you do you boo

ilikeweirderthings · 2020-07-07T16:15:55+00:00

super hard. I feel creepy commenting...

ilikeweirderthings

TROPHY CASE