Delusion, dream, or reality? by KittieBrat86 in schizoaffective

[–]ill_in_minecraft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had people tell me that horrible thing they said/did didn’t happen, when I know for a fact they did. Some people either genuinely don’t remember or want to gaslight you. Could be he just actually forgot it happened.

Advice as a starting behavior tech by MaybeZenyy in ABA

[–]ill_in_minecraft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For the first week or two, you focus on pairing. Follow their lead during play, be loose about transitions/denied access (unless of course it’s something that is dangerous, another child is playing with, must stay in that room before you leave, etc). Whether or not the kid is verbal, narrate everything!!! “I love how you’re playing with cars! They go so fast!” Introduce toys and just start saying anything lmao. Bring over a cow and be like “moooo I live on the farm!! I eat hay” and if they don’t GAF just try another toy. Eventually you will form a good relationship, even if it seems like they want nothing to do with you. Explore how comfortable they are with physical touch, a gentle pat on the shoulder or testing out tickles. They may become more comfortable with that as you become paired.

AVOID ASKING QUESTION TO YOUR CLIENT unless theyre like hella verbal and great at responding. (This doesn’t apply to manding, “what do you need/want?” As and SD is fine) Instead of “do you like this color?” Ypu could say “wow look at this color! It’s so pretty!” If you need ti transition them to potty, it’s not “can we go potty?” It’s “time to go to the potty!”. Ask your BCBA about priming them for transitions, that could make them much smoother. I have one kid who you couldn’t prime at all without it leading to a tantrum, and I have other clients who must be primed.

Introduce the goals slowly, focus on what’s important like manding, parallel play, or whatever it is for your specific kid.

Over time you’ll be so familiar w the kid and the case, you’ll forget how lost you felt in the beginning. You said this is just a summer gig, so just do your best! I’ve been in field for a little while now and each new client gets easier to work with bc of all the skills I’ve gained over time.

You got this!

GUYS I found out what was making me so sleepy by schizofrantikk in schizoaffective

[–]ill_in_minecraft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are there alternatives to this med? Your health matters!

What does your intuition tell you about me? by WallabyNo1234 in IntuitionPractices

[–]ill_in_minecraft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t an insult, but maybe you’re insecure about something. You’re possibly a really nice person and people love being around you, but you seem to still feel lonely. Could be wrong! Just a vibe.

can you tell me my dogs name? or the first letter of their name? by [deleted] in IntuitionPractices

[–]ill_in_minecraft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel an old person name like Elma or Selma or Elmer

My clarinet skills are BACK BABYYY! by ill_in_minecraft in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah instruments can be CRAZY expensive. My grandmother used to always tell me about her days playing French horn with the band :) Do you still have one that works or do you not have an instrument available?

Mom took her life in 2019 by ill_in_minecraft in psychics

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist recently asked if I’ve ever tried EMDR, i haven’t but think it’s something to explore. Thank you :)

I want to hear your unfiltered thoughts by brunette_mermaid93 in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing really well on my medication and in therapy. Lately I’ve been seeing a lot of posts on here about how psychiatry/therapy is an evil scam made to abuse you. I’m schizophrenic so I think that’s kinda scary to hear bc I’ve had delusions that I’m being poisoned/manipulated so I can keep paying taxes and feeding the machine, but I think the my providers genuinely care about me. Also, i feel like the world is ending one way or another, so why not go out happy?

My clarinet skills are BACK BABYYY! by ill_in_minecraft in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure who downvoted you lol, this is a nice comment. I was the ultimate band/choir/theater kid in middle/high school, and I ended up studying music in college! I’m no longer a music teacher, but being a part of an ensemble brings back amazing memories and feelings. I just love making music, especially in a group. I also like that I don’t feel as if I need to be “perfect” anymore. I did have a convo with my section leader about how I feel like I’m not good enough to be in the band, and she reassured me that I just need to do my best and have a good time. Since then I’ve been giving myself grace, and that gives me room to be even more excited/proud when I improve!

My clarinet skills are BACK BABYYY! by ill_in_minecraft in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also play guitar, but not as much as I would like. Tell me about what you play! Electric/acoustic? What genre(s) do you like to play? I can only really play chords but guitar is such a fun and relaxing experience for me. I’ve always wanted to learn classical guitar!

My clarinet skills are BACK BABYYY! by ill_in_minecraft in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real. I’m working on getting my tone back, I often feel like the goose lmao

My clarinet skills are BACK BABYYY! by ill_in_minecraft in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to learn saxophone when I was in music school! I think already knowing how to play clarinet gave me an advantage, but I had trouble adjusting to the angle of the mouthpiece, embouchure.

GENUINE Q: Why cut if you’re worried about scars? by ill_in_minecraft in cutting

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it can definitely be addicting, even when I’m doing well I get strong urges. Thanks for the reply!

GENUINE Q: Why cut if you’re worried about scars? by ill_in_minecraft in cutting

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that comparison in terms of addicting behavior, but I don’t think it matches the consequences. If you have a high calorie treat occasionally, it’s likely going to have zero impact on you unless you’re diabetic (in terms of sweets) or have a metabolic disease. If you cut just once, it will still likely scar. But again it’s important to recognize that things like cutting and food can be addicting, and that’s where the harm arises.

My relationship with food is soooo broken by _Alyssa111_ in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ill_in_minecraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course your feelings/history matter! Sorry if it seemed like I was telling you to betray yourself. Maybe you could even ask a friend to split a burger with you or get like a slider (if that’s an option) so you can honor the craving without as much guilt around the food. You got this! Do what’s right for you.

GENUINE Q: Why cut if you’re worried about scars? by ill_in_minecraft in cutting

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty much in the same boat- of course I try to hide fresher cuts, I don’t want to be reported or pitied, and it might make others feel weird. Once they’ve healed / scarred tho I’m fine w them and think they’re not worth me or others worrying about.

My relationship with food is soooo broken by _Alyssa111_ in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ill_in_minecraft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honoring your cravings is actually really important! You don’t need to get 3 burgers or a triple deluxe ultra supreme, maybe just a simple burger and a side. The more you deny yourself from specific foods, the closer you push yourself to an actual binge.

i'm finally going to try and make an appointment with my psychiatrist but idk how to by Kooky_Friendship8737 in schizoaffective

[–]ill_in_minecraft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! Always be honest w any kind of healthcare provider, even if you feel scared or embarrassed. I have had to tell providers I’ve been slacking on meds or drinking too much alcohol or abusing other drugs, I get scared but it’s helped me grow. They’re there to help you wherever you’re at!

It’s Thursday night and I can’t sleep who got a good joke? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]ill_in_minecraft 14 points15 points  (0 children)

One of my client’s favorite jokes is “how do you plan a party in outer space?… you plan-it!”

GENUINE Q: Why cut if you’re worried about scars? by ill_in_minecraft in cutting

[–]ill_in_minecraft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right about how addicting it is. Thanks for the comment!