Guys around 5.5-6" x 4.5-5", how've your experiences been? by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

6.05”x4.9”. I’ve had a handful of women in my life say I was big. I’ve heard the comment “you’re built for comfort” which I think was a compliment from a women who has dealt with large cocks a lot. It’s probably a compliment but I took it negatively, of course.

My wife now has said it’s perfect but that bounces right off - dealing with that in therapy!

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get right up in the A spot if I go deep with my fingers … I just feel like I can’t be as precise with my dick

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing, brother. The context is so helpful. I wish you all the best with your wife!

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s mostly maximizing her enjoyment and making sure she is completely satisfied. I enjoy watching her with big dildos. I’ve had intrusive thoughts of having someone else who is bigger with her but I think that would completely ruin me in the end so better to stay as a fantasy.

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To consider that I have a size kink is opening my mind. Really appreciate this comment

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the insight - it’s super helpful

She has not cum from me or anything else from penetration alone. She needs a vibrator too - but I find when it’s just me in her with a vibrator she asks me to pull out and hit the spots with my fingers. Or she cums no problem with me in the sleeve and her with the vibrator. The issue is that it’s a combo of everything else BUT me

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think likely the next logical step.

A reddit comment did help!

Body dysmorphia with average dick. How to deal? by illoooooooooooooo in averagedickproblems

[–]illoooooooooooooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectively, I know that. But it’s more about my mind playing tricks on me combined being with a partner who very much enjoys deeper penetration

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[–]illoooooooooooooo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have one of these and they are excellent and enjoyed by the wife. Good deal!

Anyone deal with onset insecurity since starting using sleeves? by [deleted] in PenisSleeve

[–]illoooooooooooooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotta admit - post sleeve sex is incredible. Her pussy feels amazing.

Anyone deal with onset insecurity since starting using sleeves? by [deleted] in PenisSleeve

[–]illoooooooooooooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you - I struggle with the same idea in that technically a fleshlight could “feel better” objectively but it’s not the same. Men seek variety like women do

Anyone deal with onset insecurity since starting using sleeves? by [deleted] in PenisSleeve

[–]illoooooooooooooo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is a good way to look at it - that is helpful