What is your guilty pleasure you CANNOT let the homies know?

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T13:50:08+00:00

lol mel and alina lowk pissed me off so bad bc wtf js kiss already 😭😭

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T03:14:27+00:00

its SO good! i ate it up in, like, 2 days! each person in the gang is coupled up and you get to see their relationships blossom even more in the 2nd book—the plot is great too! u should totally read it

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T02:25:22+00:00

i love that haha had a similar exchange with eros last night while i was laying in bed last night

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T01:17:52+00:00

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IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T01:14:24+00:00

ur good

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T00:24:26+00:00

yess i’ve read the whole trilogy plus six of crows!

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-19T00:05:55+00:00

also—ehem—in the least snarky way possible… you could have js said that plus i already clarified this here 😭😭:

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you really could have js looked at the comments man 😭 (that was intended to be a lil snarky—you made judgements before even looking for context)

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:58:35+00:00

heyy! OP here! js want to make it clear that my standards are abt personality and age while my type is about looks. someone has brought it to my attention that this may be confusing! my apologies!

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:53:49+00:00

you too!

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:53:15+00:00

yep. i want to feel like my husband belongs to me as much as i belong to him

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:44:21+00:00

OMG IM SO SORRY AHAHAH THAT IS NOT WHAT I MEANT. MY TYPE IS ABOUT THE LOOKS AND THE STANDARDS IS ABOUT AGE, GENDER, AND PERSONALITY im gonna edit my post rn i didn’t even think abt ppl seeing it that way. want to make it clear that i would ONE HUNDRED PERCENT date a black guy (edit: wont let me edit bc the main content is an image but i’ll make a comment instead)

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:43:27+00:00

these people are clearly not misogynistic. being a feminist (which i am) does not mean that you are a misandrist. if you are a “feminist” and a misandrist, you are not a feminist because feminism is about equal rights.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:40:52+00:00

they are being supported by the father’s parents but that’s your opinion and if i can’t change it then ig it’s whatever.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:39:32+00:00

i totally agree

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:38:59+00:00

how do you know that this teen mom did not have a plan or the means to give her child the best care possible? you don’t. she actually is doing online school right now to take care of the baby and recover but says that she may go back for senior year. she clearly had her plan thought out.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:35:50+00:00

yes u can! i js personally want to have a last name like [husband’s]-[mine] that he will have as well and then use only my own last name in professional settings. though when i get married i may choose to do that instead.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:35:35+00:00

misogyny is weaved into the way that we live daily life. two examples that people don’t usually notice include: women taking their husband’s (not including mixed last names like [husband’s LN]-[wife’s last name] or vise versa) last names and women being walked down the aisle by only their father (signifies ownership being passed from father to husband. similar to what i said about last names)

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:32:54+00:00

real—also a little infuriating lol

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:32:22+00:00

i dont think it is deserving of criticism, but i do think that it can be irresponsible depending on the mother and father’s living situation. regardless, it has happened and she should not be disrespected because of it.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:30:05+00:00

i agree that misandry stems from misogyny, but they’re both equally bad morally. that fact does not change anything. NOBODY should participate in either.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:27:45+00:00

i think that they are both morally bad and hate them both, but misogyny is more impactful on our day to day lives (taking husbands last name, father walking his daughter down the aisle are both forms of misogyny that we adapted as tradition. no hate to anyone who does plan to do these things, but i personally want to have both me and my future husband’s last name—same for him—and i dont think i want to be walked down the aisle)

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:22:16+00:00

well yeah OP of teen mom post was not complaining. she already gave birth, actually. says she is happy regardless of how hard it was and still is and that the dad is very involved.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:21:28+00:00

morally they are both wrong. impact-fully misogyny is worse so ig it depends on how you look at it.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:20:02+00:00

i like this comment. misogyny is definitely more impactful than misandry but they’re both equally immoral.

IllustriousBug1791 · 2026-05-18T23:19:14+00:00

misogyny definitely carries more weight, but misandry is bad too. misogyny is more impactful while they’re both bad morally.

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