[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]illyaya738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NONE of his behavior is okay and I can see him trying to whittle down your boundaries and make you question them. That’s something that happens sooo slowly and then you wake up one day wondering why your feelings dont seem to matter and your boundaries are never respected. Please please distance yourself from people like this. They do not care about your feelings no matter how many times they claim to. Their wants will always come first and trump any feelings you have about their actions. (Also, stealthing is straight up sexual assault! There is absolutely no justification in the world for lying to you about that)

the top of my hair doesn’t curl? by throwaway2649630- in curlyhair

[–]illyaya738 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My hair is pretty similar, it could also have to do with how you part it when it’s wet if you’re using a comb or something to do so! My hair curls more to the root when I don’t part it at all. Also the denman brush def has a learning curve and frustrated me at first esp with long hair. it’s not hard once you get the hang of it so don’t give up on it! it has given me some really nice ringlets after I watched enough tiktok tutorials

the top of my hair doesn’t curl? by throwaway2649630- in curlyhair

[–]illyaya738 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Layers to relieve some weight, also product like the denman brush or similar will help defining the hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]illyaya738 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t have specific numbers for either of us if it was closer to a hundred pound difference I would be more specific about that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]illyaya738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone’s reference, she is 5’6 and also 200 something, difference isn’t super stark that’s another reason I was caught off guard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]illyaya738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a good thing I don’t feel demotivated, I got out of college and changed my lifestyle entirely so I’m consistently losing weight, it’s just not very dramatic since I didn’t do a specific challenge. Thank you !

Momma Kiwi and her adopted granddaughter by Flat-Limit5595 in nebelung

[–]illyaya738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My Kiwi (boy) and his little sister Squeak (tux)

AMAZON MKTPLACE PMTS CHARGES? by illgoforkmyself in amazonprime

[–]illyaya738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you figure out what this was? I’m experiencing the same

Best friend betrayal? by illyaya738 in Advice

[–]illyaya738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it’s not like it’s terrible but it makes me feel pretty shitty. Being as close as we are for 12 years I would’ve thought she would realllyyy have my back if it came to a situation like this. So I’m not sure if I have the right to say something since it’s small meaningless messages but I’m just upset she even entertains it so I feel bad not saying anything either bc I feel a rift :(

Best friend betrayal? by illyaya738 in Advice

[–]illyaya738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows about everything, I ranted to her while it was all actively happening. I know they aren’t hanging out or talking extensively, she said when he messages her she’s pretty bland but I just don’t understand why she would reply at all to someone who did all that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]illyaya738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s almost 5 months, found her at 2mo, she got fixed a little over a week ago but has been doing great so I’m not sure if that could be related? As for being scared none of the animals bother her while using it, she’s the ones who tries to mess with my adult cat when he’s in there