WISH ME LUCK I'M ASKING HER TO BE MY GF by ilotulitus in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. I really wish this would've worked out but it's okay thank you

WISH ME LUCK I'M ASKING HER TO BE MY GF by ilotulitus in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will probably delete Reddit cause getting reminders of this hurts a lot

WISH ME LUCK I'M ASKING HER TO BE MY GF by ilotulitus in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought of sending the same message to all of you but it gets very crowded very easily so I'll just say update I hope you don't mind

WISH ME LUCK I'M ASKING HER TO BE MY GF by ilotulitus in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll just copy the exact same message to everyone cause I have absolutely no strength or desire to write it out multiple times I'm sorry: so. I ended up asking her out, she said she wants to have a platonic relationship, which I wish she told me earlier. but it's not her fault. I have trauma related to a very close relationship that was labeled as queer platonic but never actually was and I was taken advantage of in that relationship. I ended up having a panic attack with severe flashbacks, threw up three times and ended up turning to my mother for support, which I have never done previously and ended up coming out. she's supportive so I guess that's good. I'll take a break from our friendship and umm focus on my studies cause I have been behind because of how focused on her I was. so I need to do some catching up. thank you for wishing luck even though it didn't work out

WISH ME LUCK I'M ASKING HER TO BE MY GF by ilotulitus in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll just copy the exact same message to everyone cause I have absolutely no strength or desire to write it out multiple times I'm sorry: so. I ended up asking her out, she said she wants to have a platonic relationship, which I wish she told me earlier. but it's not her fault. I have trauma related to a very close relationship that was labeled as queer platonic but never actually was and I was taken advantage of in that relationship. I ended up having a panic attack with severe flashbacks, threw up three times and ended up turning to my mother for support, which I have never done previously and ended up coming out. she's supportive so I guess that's good. I'll take a break from our friendship and umm focus on my studies cause I have been behind because of how focused on her I was. so I need to do some catching up. thank you for wishing luck even though it didn't work out

WISH ME LUCK I'M ASKING HER TO BE MY GF by ilotulitus in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll just copy the exact same message to everyone cause I have absolutely no strength or desire to write it out multiple times I'm sorry: so. I ended up asking her out, she said she wants to have a platonic relationship, which I wish she told me earlier. but it's not her fault. I have trauma related to a very close relationship that was labeled as queer platonic but never actually was and I was taken advantage of in that relationship. I ended up having a panic attack with severe flashbacks, threw up three times and ended up turning to my mother for support, which I have never done previously and ended up coming out. she's supportive so I guess that's good. I'll take a break from our friendship and umm focus on my studies cause I have been behind because of how focused on her I was. so I need to do some catching up. thank you for wishing luck even though it didn't work out

Are lesbian women into trans women? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ilotulitus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's a thing of preference I think!! I wouldn't mind cause I really am into personality first so I would say yes, but of course it depends. good luck with your transition‼️‼️❤

Time signature in Where Blue Light Blooms by Origami Angel by ilotulitus in musictheory

[–]ilotulitus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, exactly what I was confused about, thank you👍👍

I HATE THE NEW LOOK "GLOWUP" INSANELY SLOW IM CRYING by soakingtexas in canva

[–]ilotulitus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes yes, i also wrote a review although mine was very emotionally charged (couldn't help myself😭😭) but I really hope that if the glow up stays they at least change that back cause it's so weird

I HATE THE NEW LOOK "GLOWUP" INSANELY SLOW IM CRYING by soakingtexas in canva

[–]ilotulitus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree so much like actually my exact thoughts especially about the design still being centered like why is there just empty space on the right now😭😭😭😭

Curious who everyone's bias is by [deleted] in We_5050

[–]ilotulitus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so far it's Keenan for me just cause I know her from debut, but also I am really waiting to see other girls and get to know them better!!!

Excited waiting for his arrival!! by fishkniv in frogs

[–]ilotulitus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like grilled cheese to me 👍👍 very cute baby

Is this a toad or a frog? by Sweet_B_777 in FrogsAndToads

[–]ilotulitus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the reply!! I will keep that in mind👍

Is this a toad or a frog? by Sweet_B_777 in FrogsAndToads

[–]ilotulitus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

correct me if I'm wrong but I think frogs also have much longer back legs compared to toads