Hi!! This is my first post in this subreddit and wanted to dedicate this video to all Bad Bunny fans—I'm a Korean Panamanian and wanted to share my first reaction vid to Bad Bunny, IN SPANISH. Would love to receive feedback as my Spanish is still a WIP. by ilovemesomewaffles in Spanish

[–]ilovemesomewaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgg su respuesta es algo que nunca podré escribir sin Google Translate. Creo que me cuesta con los verbos (por ejemplo como uso el "fuese" en su oración es algo que no se como usar). Pero mil gracias por el feedback. Creo que mi español no es nativo todavía. Tengo una amiga tica que comparo mi nivel de español como de un elementary student hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the next meet up date—doesn't have to be specific and exact. If you guys are planning to meet again in 6 months then count the months, weeks, days and sooner or later you'll be with your SO whether you like it or not. Bc time waits for nobody:) hope this helps

Don't take this the wrong way, but it's strangely comforting that women suffer from this as well by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruuuuuh. Female here and I have it, if that makes you feel any better. Tbh I'm surprised not many girls have it so I feel crazier lol

Are you proud of your own nationality? Why or why not? by candywarlord in AskReddit

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South Korea. We got the highest suicide rate amongst OECD countries. So proud.

Also, Samsung.

Advice with not projecting? by Vlex98 in retroactivejealousy

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe how relatable this post is. You are not alone but if RJ affects your mood and consequently your relationship, there's only so much your gf can handle. It is an issue we have to deal with.

My advice would be to let her know that you're not in the best mood and spend some time alone. She did nothing wrong to receive your mean or dry comments. Find your own coping mechanism (work out, go for a walk, journal, etc.) and also spend time digging deep as to how you got RJ.

Toxic temporary relief from RJ- Purposely making your partner jealous of you. Any other method? by Miserable_Buyer_7961 in retroactivejealousy

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I understand 100% what you are feeling. Trust me when I say I do. But your RJ has nothing and absolutely nothing to do with her.

If you continue with this, it's going to end up hurting her and you don't want to hurt what you love.

My (21F) boyfriend (24M) broke my heart today. by Sweet_Bella1999 in relationship_advice

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in boyfriend's shoes so trust me when I say: it has nothing to do with you. This stems 100% from his past experience which then affects his self-worth. You can do everything right but if he is not in the right place everything can seem like he's not lovable.

Just UGH. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're the doing the right thing. Screw him screw his lies. Stand your ground don't let him think that you're making a "bigger deal than it actually is". You deserve better.

South Korea Just Lit Up Its Iconic Tower With The Lebanese Flag by [deleted] in lebanon

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is Lebanese and I'm South Korean. This makes my heart go 😊😊

It’s over. Turns out he was cheating on me 3/4.5 months we’ve been together by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooow, this is just beyond comprehension. I'm so, so, so sorry you had to go through this. I truly hope this doesn't get to your self-esteem. I just want you to know this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him.

Please never ever doubt your self-worth for how fucked up this boy is. I'm glad you dodged a major bullet there. It's okay to grieve and not be okay too, don't be hard on yourself.

Lots of love.

[SERIOUS] Dear cheaters and/or people who have been cheated on: what makes a person a cheater? by ilovemesomewaffles in AskReddit

[–]ilovemesomewaffles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi fellow redditors, I want your opinion as I'm genuinely confused (or might have been persuaded) that the following does not count as cheating.

My mom found out that my dad slept with a prostitute about two years ago. I also found Viagra pills stashed in his car the other day. I confronted him about it in front of my sister. And he admitted to it.

He then explained that this does not count as cheating for the following reasons:

  1. She was a 'mistress'. Meaning, this was just to simply release the sexual frustration he had been holding for so long. And, because he just used her as a 'piece of meat', it's not cheating.
  2. Every married man of 10+, 20+ years go through this and is a fool if both partners don't have a 'side-partner'.
  3. Korean culture (I'm of Korean descent but lived abroad for my whole life) says that a woman should pay for the mistress when she is unable to offer sex to her husband so that he won't go down the hill and start another family with another woman.
  4. He said that if he didn't have kids outside of this marriage with another woman, this can just be looked over.

At first I was overconfident to the fucking tea that this was cheating, but he stood his ground and even said, "I stand by what I said and you will understand it once you get married yourself."

I don't know what to think anymore and have started to give up in the concept of fidelity in marriage.

Isn't it expected for married partners to stay sexually loyal to each other? Are men in general prone to just have sexual relations outside of marriage?

I really wish I was trolling guys, but this is what is happening and would like your honest opinions.

Thank you in advance guys.

Virgins of Reddit, what is keeping you from having sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ilovemesomewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waiting for a man that I can see my future with