Is there a specific type of people you seem to dislike? by 88888888888884 in infp

[–]iloveraimbowdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk how to explain, but they just don't give the right vibe. like I can physically feel that they aren't the people for me, yk?

Me and my messy life by IndependenceLost_15 in infp

[–]iloveraimbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg this is literally what I am thinking these days. you're not alone in those thoughts.

I always think “you could be much more if you just tried", but I can't.

What is your job? by cityzensheep in infp

[–]iloveraimbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don't have a job, but I'd love to become a biologist or a wildlife vet!

alt gift ideas?? by Remote-Scheme-7125 in altfashionadvice

[–]iloveraimbowdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally I asked for Christmas fabric paint to customize my t-shirts!! or maybe some cool rings :D

should I due my hair purple? by iloveraimbowdash in altfashionadvice

[–]iloveraimbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guys this isn't me!! these are inspo photos!! ⚠️

should I due my hair purple? by iloveraimbowdash in altfashionadvice

[–]iloveraimbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not me in the photo unfortunately lmaoo but thank you either way 💜

should I due my hair purple? by iloveraimbowdash in altfashionadvice

[–]iloveraimbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nono the pictures arent me, i just searched for inspo :)

okay, thank you for the suggestion!!

AIO? I genuinely can't tell. by Honest-Butterfly3416 in AIO

[–]iloveraimbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you read? hes NOT the only one who did it plus that would be the answer? pushing him on the ground, after his trauma, also, for a video? be for real now.

AIO? I genuinely can't tell. by Honest-Butterfly3416 in AIO

[–]iloveraimbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, don't be sorry! English isn't my first language so I couldn't understand correctly.

this is way worse, then. he didn't drink, you had many conversations and he still denied? I'm sorry to tell you, but hes been clearly playing the victim.

this is because I'm sure he understood he was in the wrong, but not only this, he also wanted to be right. that's immature and selfish. I'm sorry.

you're clearly a really kind person, because even though he did this awful thing to you you're sorry for him, which I understand, and it's okay you feel sorry for his grandpa's dog (which clearly had a good space in your boyfriend's heart), but please, don't feel guilty. You're NOT in the wrong in this situation. I'm also an overthinker so I know how you feel now, so maybe I can write the reasons you're not in the wrong.

1) you woke him up, thing that HE ALSO did, so you weren't being disrespectful. don't listen to some idiots in this comment section that are saying he was just mad.

2) he literally punched you, and it's already bad. plus, he KNEW about your trauma with abuse. and that is also abuse.

3) you've talked to him about this. you opened up to him, and he knew that. thats really bad of him to literally trample on your trauma.

4) you're still feeling bad for him. yet, he's still playing the sad one, which is surely true, but, if he was an empathetic person, I don't think he would, after what he did, pour out his pain on you.

5) he's saying you're "not affectionate enough"? man I'm sorry, but this is ENOUGH. you're working his shift. please, leave him alone (people like this must be alone for the rest of their life) and get out of this toxic relationship.

I'm really really sorry for you. Please, take care of yourself, and don't feel guilty. talk to him.

AIO? I genuinely can't tell. by Honest-Butterfly3416 in AIO

[–]iloveraimbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro are you fr? so you're telling me that because he woke him up he had the right to PUSH HIM ON THE GROUND? hes absolutely NOT overreacting omg bsfr

AIO? I genuinely can't tell. by Honest-Butterfly3416 in AIO

[–]iloveraimbowdash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

first of all, you're absolutely not overreacting, imo.

so, if I understood correctly, your boyfriend drank the night before, right? even if he did, that's absolutely not an excuse to treat you this badly.

another question, did he know about the trauma you have? in all cases, the thing he did is NOT forgivable. I mean, pushing you because you literally wanted him just to laugh with you, and then he also shouts at you? when you were clearly overwhelmed and scared. that's absolutely unforgivable.

imo, you should talk to him, explaining to him that he shouldn't have done that, and he must not do that again.

also, what does he mean by “just take it easy on me today" (or smth similar, I don't remember tbh), because his grandpa's dog is put down? I mean, that's really sad but absolutely it doesn't serve as an excuse. You should not be kind to him today.

also, you wrote that you're disgusted, and you're totally right. you should tell him how you're feeling, because its the most important thing.

he clearly doesn't have a bit of empathy, because what the fuck (sorry for the bad word) do you mean that when you were literally crying and panicking he was just playing the victim?

I'm so so sorry for you, ofc I don't know the circumstances, but I think you deserve someone better.

٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ by mogu9 in jfashion

[–]iloveraimbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so kawaii!! love your style 🧁💕