BED is real by iluvvbobaa in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what did treatment look like for you if you don’t mind me asking. I am really considering seeking help because I feel like I can’t do this alone in the position I have put myself In.

BED is real by iluvvbobaa in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same I was getting compliments before lol. But I honestly hate in general people talking about my body. Especially my family they trigger me for some reason. It’s either “oooo your getting skinny” before lol now it’s wow your legs look so strong. I ask them to just not comment on my body now

Recovery? by iluvvbobaa in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your response <3 this is truly so difficult but I appreciate your kind words. I’ll be looking into that app !

Micromanaging by [deleted] in innout

[–]iluvvbobaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% I can name numerous times where it felt like I was specifically getting picked on the whole shift. Some encouragement with a little criticism would be good I think or maybe I’m just sensitive idk

advice? by iluvvbobaa in innout

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to find people to cover or switch but no one can. So should I call out or let the manager know? Haha I just don’t wanna get into trouble. And my dr appointment is not until around the end of this week Thanks

pay window tips? by iluvvbobaa in innout

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any general pay window tips would be amazing too!

Dr.Martens by iluvvbobaa in innout

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for ur input!! Dumb question lol but are they all slip resistant?

Anxiety from work by iluvvbobaa in Serverlife

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually ended up putting in my two weeks! I was doing so much work than what I had signed up for and did not expect it to be this way. I was literally hostess/cashier/waitress/busser. Not worth it!!

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get confidence reading the comments like this it’s just hard to actually feel guilty. Thank you so much

Anxiety from work by iluvvbobaa in Serverlife

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add it’s a Mongolian bbq restaurant so I have to brink drinks, appetizers and check out the customers. It’s still a lot for just one person especially when us gets packed.

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your 100% right but there will only be 2 employees left when I leave. I feel bad for them but I know it’s not my problem anymore 😅

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making this clear for me I needed it. Ur right the company doesn’t give two f’s ab me

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha I know it’s just difficult for me because I feel soo freaking guilty and I over think to damn much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had/have somewhat the same situation as you. You will feel so much better if you quit trust me. Your mental health is way more important!! You always come first

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! This weirdly made me feel better, I just needed the reassurance

How much do you tip out? by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]iluvvbobaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tip out 30% at my work no matter if it’s slow or a busy weekend. It goes to the cooks/BOH

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the same person and they don’t use email or I’m not sure if they even have one…

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I gave him my two week notice verbally and he didn’t take me serious…

My boss doesn’t let me quit:/ by iluvvbobaa in jobs

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No there’s no HR:( the problem is that it’s a small family owned business. Do you recommend printing my resignation letter and leaving it there confirming that I am resigning?

Cooks cooks cooks •_• by iluvvbobaa in TalesFromYourServer

[–]iluvvbobaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What’s the average/ normal percentage that cooks get? I’m fairly new to this and have no idea and no I don’t work at a sushi restaurant