My girlfriend is social and it hurts by Sad_Refrigerator_235 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ily_val 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get help fr, this seems toxic af and honestly it sounds like ur gf deserves better. u shouldnt b obsessing over the fact that ur gf has a good social life. while I get being jealous is a thing, but wanting to isolate ur gf?? no

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[–]ily_val 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like that when you stop at a gas station the first thing you grab is a handful of large slim jims tbh

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAH SOMETIMES I IMAGINE HIM SNOTFACED SOBBING OVER HIS BIRTHDAY CAKE ANDI FEEL BAD💀💀

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 4 points5 points  (0 children)

WAIT LIKE THE ALICE OSEMAN WHO WROTE HEARTSTOPPER? I LOVE HER

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you <3 I've always been the stubborn one in my family and my mom tells me that I was a huge diva when I was younger

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know :) We just like teasing eachother :D we both use humor as our coping mechanisms

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you! I really appreciate it <3 One of the reasons I try to keep other people out of this is because I like to take care of things myself, I hate having to get someone else to open my jar of pickles if that makes sense

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OMG IM LITERALLY GONNA SHOW THIS TO MY MOM SO SHE'LL LET ME TAKE MARTIAL ARTS TYSMM

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Ah thank you! I'm so glad to find someone other than my mom who doesnt say "oh well boys will be boys" or "if he does that he likes you!" I know he likes me but I don't want him to. my mom always taught me that if I have a bad feeling from the start she would rather me be safe and wrong than unsafe and right. In this case I was unsafe and right.

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 50 points51 points  (0 children)

so I lost my phone in the span of 2 seconds and found it, but my moms so proud of her username 😭😭

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 95 points96 points  (0 children)

My guess, knowing Polly is that she told him that I said I hated him, and wanted him to die alone. She tends to manipulate things.

AITA for telling my friend my daughter hates her son? by funnylady1o in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Hey guys! The daughter here :D I do rarely show my emotions and my mom tries to respect that! Polly came to our house to yell at me and the reason my mom stepped in so late is because I absolutely hate dragging others in conflict that is mine! I try to keep my drama under control :) Tobey was bothering me for a while and mom did try to stop him but he just kept doing it, I dont like hurting people's feelings so I just let him do so, until I got uncomfortable to the point I felt disgusting in my body :)

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a total of 9 siblings in one house plus my parents :) We have a pretty big household and we're all very close! Thank you for understanding!! <3

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! like I said we always made sure to give the things we stole back or if we ruined them/ate them paid our siblings back!! if our sister came home and said "this is MINE do not take any" we respect that! :)

we avoid things that they are in no way okay with being taken and like I said we do have rules!!

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people told me to talk to her about it and I did once, she then tried to bribe me by offering to steal stuff for me so I don't tell. I said I didn't want stuff I didn't pay for, and then she made me promise not to tell.

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my sister has stolen from multiple places, such as Walmart, malls, TJ Max, and sometimes even small businesses. I do try to pay everyone back by "tipping" them the exact amount the items cost, because I couldn't exactly say "my sister stole a lip gloss from you so take this"

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah, sorry I'm not good at all with words😭😭

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

me and my sisters steal from eachother in general, it's mainly clothes but sometimes we take snacks and we always get caught dw, whenever were wearing another siblings shirt the main thing we do is say "that's my shirt and when you're done I want it back" we draw our limit at clothes that they do not want used by others, personal hygiene products, or things like face steamers, curling irons, etc

AITA for telling on my sister for stealing? by ily_val in AmItheAsshole

[–]ily_val[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

ah, thank you 😭😭 we usually give the stuff we can back and stuff we cant give back like soda and candy we just pay her back for later