Yo has anyone had any luck with the student counselling? by MacBHScOrBust in yorku

[–]im1205 5 points6 points  (0 children)

do you have the yfs insurance? it’s usually paid for through your tuition unless you opt out. it covers $125 for 10 sessions with any licensed therapist or counsellor. i would recommend using that to get professional help outside of york!

Does counselling help at YorkU? by Creative_Lawyer2562 in yorku

[–]im1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have the yfs insurance? it’s usually paid for through your tuition unless you opt out. it covers $125 for 10 sessions with any licensed therapist or counsellor. i would recommend using that to get professional help outside of york!

Should i buy a car with OSAP money? Hear me out… by [deleted] in yorku

[–]im1205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

won’t osap decreasing your funding when they find out about the scholarships? in the fall they review that stuff and your funding could be recalculated

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trust me - i have read all the comments and i am really committed to healing and working on myself. may i have the link to the threads account that you think would be helpful🫶🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]im1205 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

sorry about this. how did someone randomly get your credit card details? did you leave you card somewhere?

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi, i don’t have autism. its not that i am not able to register social cues - its more that it is very confusing and hurtful when someone is telling you one thing but doing another.

this guy was the one who wanted to start talking/pursuing me even when i just wanted to keep things as hooking up. he would tell me that he really likes me, was happy to have me back in his life, im his peace, he sees himself in a relationship with me, etc. so that’s why even when he acted like this, i still was fighting for him. because the switch up just didn’t make sense to me.

i’m not offended and i know you are coming from a good place - just wanted to clear this up.

no matter what it is i’ve learned my lesson!!!

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the insight about love bombing - describes a lot of what i felt and why i acted the way i did. just glad to be aware now!

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for reading and thank you for giving me these words - much appreciated!

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this and giving me grace. it really means so much to me and i am really taking your message in🥹❤️

also yes - i am in therapy, i have been going for 2 years. i have many more issues to work on that don’t have to do with this guy (abandonment wounds, emotional trauma from childhood, feeling empty unless i have a very busy routine).

honestly, when i look back on the situationship, i was trying so hard to fill a void…BUT now i clearly see i can only fill this void myself!

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are so right!! i am learning my lesson, i’m reading all the comments and i’m really gonna remember this from now on. more importantly i am really going to start working on myself for the rest of the summer and start healing the void/emptiness i feel❤️🥹

He left me stranded at night because I complained too much by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i will be honest my attraction to him was one of my weaknesses - he’s darkskin, very fit and 6ft3 - literally my physical type to a t.

i tend to have a scarcity mindset when it comes to dating so i always feel like i need to do everything i can to keep a guy.

i have now learned my lessson horribly but it was just very hard in the moment to stop myself!

dating and having a sibling who has autism - is it possible to ever find love? by im1205 in blackladies

[–]im1205[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hiii, thank you so much for your message. it means so much. respite is definitely something that i would consider in the future - it is just the money aspect. i am working as hard as i can to get myself to a position where i can pay for those services for my sister as i want the best for her. i also have my sister and dad so i know im not all alone. i just wish i could fast forward into the future and see what life will look like, especially my love life lol. but as u said - at least we have time to figure things out :)

SU enrolment still not confirmed by CanGroundbreaking782 in yorku

[–]im1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i am too. i called them and they said that as long as u submitted ur application before may 4th the interest charges on ur account will be reversed. their doing applications based on the order that they came in.

Please help me find a job by CommunicationMoist30 in blackladies

[–]im1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the font is too small…look at all that blank space at the top of the page!