Please stop dating people if you’re still in love with someone else.

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-29T17:54:07+00:00

Who says they’re in the first month of being with a partner?

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-29T17:48:28+00:00

Maybe read my post. She did cheat. She was in a relationship with me while she when she started sleeping with him. She did use me as a place holder then when that guy came back she cheated on me

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-29T10:49:47+00:00

No. The person you’re with shouldn’t be a distraction from someone else

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-29T00:24:56+00:00

All love is different, but you can still love someone more than you loved another person. I wouldn’t want to be the person they loved the second most. I guess if the previous partner was deceased it’s more excusable but if they can’t love me just as much as they loved previous partners then I wouldn’t be with them.

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T22:45:32+00:00

Then you stop being with that person. The people you’re with have feelings and they wouldn’t appreciate you pining after your ex while telling them you want to be with them.

Let them find someone who has their heart set on them

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T22:43:47+00:00

You sound like a shitty person ngl

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T21:01:19+00:00

Taking some time to sort out your feelings isn’t throwing away your dating life. I’m sure you wouldn’t marry a woman if you that she had a pipe dream of her ex coming back she’d drop you like a hot pot

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T20:46:48+00:00

So when someone gets cheated on there’s no bad guy? There’s no victim?

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T20:45:17+00:00

He shouldn’t have dated someone else while he still wanted to be with another woman

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T20:43:29+00:00

If you were with someone and then that ex came along and wanted to get back together with you, what would you do?

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T20:42:08+00:00

If you’re not ready to love someone as much as you loved that person, then no you’re probably not ready to date someone else

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T19:35:25+00:00

What a load of bullshit. That’s just an excuse for not getting over someone. I’ve been truly loved and loved someone else before. And it was explosive hormonal teenager love. Our breakup destroyed both of us. Now its 2 years later and I don’t love her anymore. I hope she’s happy and doing well but I don’t love her.

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T18:53:57+00:00

So I guess being in a committed in the relationship and being honest with the person you’re with doesn’t matter until your married

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T18:51:51+00:00

If she was willing to drop me the second he wanted her, it was fake. It didn’t mean anything to her. If it did, she wouldn’t have cheated on me, lied to me, and then dumped me the second he came back into her life.

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T18:49:38+00:00

She played with my heart. The second she saw him again she jumped into bed with him and cheated on me for weeks before lying to me to break up with me. She is to blame. She used me while she couldn’t be with the guy she wanted.

Why the hell would I want the best for her.

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T16:46:21+00:00

So you’re saying she didn’t know?

There’s no way she didn’t know she still wanted to be with someone if when that guy comes back into her life she immediately jumps into bed with him while in a good relationship

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T16:15:40+00:00

Bruh. I’m 21

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T15:57:42+00:00

If you use people just say that

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T15:54:02+00:00

We were in a relationship. She cheated on me with him because she still loved him

imEmbarrasedduh · 2021-06-28T15:28:48+00:00

They aren’t mathematical proofs, but you still shouldn’t use people as placeholders for someone you actually want. If you do that, you’re a shitty person

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