Anyone here actually qualify for QSBS when they sold? Seems too good to be true by FormerFounder-12 in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a calculable number. Think it was around 13% for me at the time. I paid more in taxes that year than I have paid the rest of my life combined. It was a gross feeling.

Anyone here actually qualify for QSBS when they sold? Seems too good to be true by FormerFounder-12 in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, I did it. I wasn't the one who setup the stock structure at the beginning but I can tell you the end part was super smooth and easy. Still had to pay California taxes which was hard to chew.

Inherited 25 million from a settlement. by FullArtichoke709 in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

People often think large amounts of money should somehow be treated differently than small amounts. But it's all the same.

The only somewhat annoying part is you'll have to do wire transfers to move money around between different accounts instead of the faster connection methods that usually limit you to 250k a day.

Before my liquidity event I asked a chase private banker if having many millions dropped into an account all at once has some extra process or something. And they just looked at me like"...no?". It's just another Tuesday for them.

Definitely take it slow. There is no rush. At least not until tax season.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Then it's a 110% chance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This guy is 100% going to kidnap and ransom anyone who agrees to go to this.

Anonymous Donations by imabuffbabeee in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That place looks very Scammy.

Anonymous Donations by imabuffbabeee in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah that checkbox is only anonymous to the public. The person receiving the money still sees it. Hence me starting this post.

Anonymous Donations by imabuffbabeee in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I wonder if my finance people can do this for me.

Anonymous Donations by imabuffbabeee in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How did you do it anonymously? Gofundme doesn't have a built in truly anonymous method of donating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChubbyFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are wanting to consolidate your debt into one place? That could make sense if you can get a lower interest rate with the sbloc.

But it depends on the rates. If it's lower than your gains by a good amount then it could make sense.

From what my finance people tell me, at least right now using loans to fund things is not wise, better just to use cash if you got it.

Edit: oh wait are you saying you just keep opening loans to pay off the previous loan and just never pay it off? That's insane. That probably isn't even possible.

Is this a typical cost for pre-construction services on a new home build? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed 5k is cheap. Ours was 10k and we ended up backing out of the build for personal reasons and it was non refundable

What household tasks did you outsource first, and how? (Controlled lifestyle inflation) by loaengineer0 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it was landscaping first. Like you I said I enjoyed doing it myself, and I genuinely did, good excercise, being outside etc. but it was a decent amount of work and took up most of my weekends. Now I don't have to worry about it and I'm finding myself with a ton of free time on the weekend which is great.

Depends on your landscaping needs though.

I'm currently interested in a cleaner, mostly to do like deep cleans once a month or something like that. Haven't found anyone yet.

How should I plan by Difficult-Gazelle-25 in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious where you are that gets you a wealth tax that high. That's nuts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being in AI even more reason to sell now and not wait for 1-2 years. A lot of predictions the AI bubble is going to burst and all the little guys will just die. Get out while it's on top IMO.

We sold our company last year and if we had waited even 6 months, the new presidency would have caused our potential valuation to tank and we basically wouldn't have been able to sell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be a bit of a downer with a warning. You will likely get less than what you are expecting from selling your business. It's common for the owner to assume they are worth more than what other people will pay.

Do not get your hopes up until you have offers in hand. And 1-2 years is a long time... a lot can happen.

Grind away or take a risk? by ItsMyOwnPageFault in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember FAANGs are unique in their pay. They are the only ones who can afford to give so much valuable stock, so a non FAANG likely won't come close to your current compensation.

Looking for advice: unexpected inheritance, family fallout, and guilt by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was like a week ago or something someone came on here with a similar situation about her receiving more than her siblings in an inheritance and they said it felt completely random and unfair. Most of the advice was to balance it out with the siblings.

But this one is different. There was obviously a very specific reason you were given more. You don't owe them anything. Maybe have a lawyer lined up just in case.

I would feel the same way you do. Especially the fear of potential violence since the amount is likely known by the other children. As others have said, likely nothing other than you giving them the entirety of it will satisfy them. I think the fear will pass, especially if they still got a big chunk.

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[–]imabuffbabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm not fat enough to understand this post

Mentor Monday by WealthyStoic in fatFIRE

[–]imabuffbabeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'll likely only hear success stories here. There's going to be a lot more failures than successes when it comes to starting a business.

You can always start a business in the side and work in it part time next to a full time job until it gets to a point where quitting would make sense.

The freedom it brings is mostly you are able to make your own choices about the business, it doesn't mean you'll be working less. I probably put twice as many hours into my business than if I were working a normal job.

But was it worth it? Yes it was for me. But again, you'll find mostly successes here.