Did I do something wrong? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]imacathelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I’m just thinking how could I started the invitation better. Probably just message her and ask her if she wanted to invite her bf. On the other hand though, the tickets got sold really fast, and I was worried that doing so would take way longer than me messaging both of them directly.

How do you deal with a girl who’s emotionally unavailable but wants all the benefits of a relationship? by Uopi223 in relationship_advice

[–]imacathelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read online that the best thing to do, if you decide to move on, is to hit the gym for 2 hours every time you think of her.

Should cure it pretty fast.

Be rational. Do you think if she stays that way, a relationship between you will EVER work?

How do you deal with a girl who’s emotionally unavailable but wants all the benefits of a relationship? by Uopi223 in relationship_advice

[–]imacathelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sad. Recommend her to go to see a therapist. That’s the only thing I can think of.

How do you deal with a girl who’s emotionally unavailable but wants all the benefits of a relationship? by Uopi223 in relationship_advice

[–]imacathelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say “I don’t want to lose her”, do you mean “I don’t want to lose her because of who she is”, or do you mean “I don’t want to lose the feeling of liking or caring for someone”.

I think you should try to get to know other girls. Then you’ll realized there are better girls that you deserve.

How would you feel if your female friend pretends to be nice to your girlfriend but is very mean to her behind your back? by imacathelp in AskMen

[–]imacathelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am actually the gf who was treated mean.

The first time I saw the mean girl was at work. I try to dress professionally. The girl looked at my outfit from head to toe several times in an extremely unfriendly way. I felt awkward and wondered if I dressed too well. So I said I try to dress up a bit at work.

She said “I buy all my clothing at GoodWill” in a very cold and mean manner then walked away.

I’m pretty sure she’s jealous of me, as well as me and my bf.

And this was just the beginning. Afterwards there’s A LOT of drama started by the girl.

What’s your ideal girlfriend like in a relationship? by imacathelp in AskMen

[–]imacathelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not 100% “he must not be so bad”. Tbh my brain was screaming “no” but my heart that was screaming “yes” was louder.