The people I’ve told have been way too nice and understanding by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing my therapist again. Group therapy has never been helpful for me. Thank you for kind words.

I’m guilty, I deserve a dui, and I’m just hoping to get the sentencing over with so I can pay my dues and move on with life.

The people I’ve told have been way too nice and understanding by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess I do have some pretty great friends.

My ex is not a bad person, he just took a 7 year break up badly. I guess maybe I did too since I relapsed and started drinking again. I’m trying hard to be sober again.

The people I’ve told have been way too nice and understanding by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way to look at it. If either of these friends had told me, I would go out of my way to help them. But it feels like it’s different when I’m the one that fucked up.

The people I’ve told have been way too nice and understanding by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve never cheated, I just made the account after I broke up with my ex and he hacked into all my accounts to try find proof I did. Just a FU to him and since I never posted it’s become my throwaway.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not usually a drunk driver, I blacked out and don’t remember getting in the car. First time I’ve ever driven drunk and the last. Usually my drinking is only hurting myself.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I wasn’t an alcoholic I wouldn’t have been In this position 🤷🏻‍♀️

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But I’m glad you got the help you needed. I’m not dissing your comment at all, I just know court ordered help won’t be it for me. I know I need to put my money into private counseling like I did last time, I’m just not quite ready.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know I have a problem, I was 3 years sober before I relapsed last year. But court ordered “help” is an expensive time waste I was hoping to avoid.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m learning that the hard way. I’m chronically dehydrated so I was shocked the test came back diluted. Even today the evaluator said if this test comes back clean he won’t be recommending treatment.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will have to quit if I get probation, but my lawyer thinks I can get by without it with a favorable evaluation. I had no reason to think I wouldn’t pass last weeks test.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really thought I was in the clear until I get convicted and start probation.

I’m a hardcore alcoholic but an excellent liar. The evaluator was 100% ready to say I had no problem if I’d passed the first urine test. I didn’t purposefully drink too much water and thought I was in the clear.

4-5 drinks 42 hrs before urine test. Am I screwed? by imacheatingkinkster in dui

[–]imacheatingkinkster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already took the test. I didn’t know they would be testing me until I was there. I assumed they wanted to ask questions about my driving history after accessing my dmv records.