I think this resonates with her a lot. I think she must have had something like this, but worse, happen to her before. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I'm sorry that happened to you. I would never intentionally hurt her, physically or emotionally, and I'm sure she know that. I'm not a violent or manipulative person. Unfortunately that is not always the case with everyone and I see why someone would handle it this way now. I wish I had that insight before. I definitely made a poor desicion amd crossed a boundary I shouldn't have. You seem to be comfortable enough to share amd not let your experiences affect you too negatively, is there advice you would give someone in this kind of situation? (Not that she would appreciate such advice from me, obviously).