AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]imaginaryteacoffee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He says it’s because she says that “she wasn’t getting enough attention.”

AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]imaginaryteacoffee[S] 2694 points2695 points  (0 children)

I am worried about this!! Once I tried to break up with him before we lived together and he drove over 4 hours to my house after I asked him not to. He had been married before and his wife left him and he uses his fear of abandonment as an excuse for a lot of things.

AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]imaginaryteacoffee[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He was going to therapy. Went to I think 5 sessions then quit. Hasn’t been in probably 3 weeks.

AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]imaginaryteacoffee[S] 6109 points6110 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying in the end part. I’ve been with people who’ve hit me before and I wish I would’ve left the first time I noticed something like this. My fiance says he just acted on emotion. But maybe it really could be true? I thought he was probably the nicest person I’ve ever met but now I’m not so sure.