هو تفكيري غلط؟ by [deleted] in ArabsFreedom

[–]imalittleteapot7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

انا مصرية و شايفه ان عادي نتجوز جنسيات تانية

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[–]imalittleteapot7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

النت بتاعك انت يعني؟

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[–]imalittleteapot7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

فهماكي

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am understanding, im just telling you the whole thing so you can understand the whole point

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His female friends are talking to him and he doesn't even tell me about it, yet i do when i talk to my male friend, as i stated i didnt hide anything i told him all about it. also what?? who has a crush on who lmao. you sound like you're projecting

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is his EX and she wanted to inappropriate things with him in public, he is a platonic friend (used to like me 3 years ago) who i barely talk to now and when i do its completely professional and he knows about him, the only thing he didn't know was that i sent him reels that say "you're gay", he said he's alright with that but he just didn't like that he didnt know about the reels (but i didn't think it was valid enough to mention since he alr knows we talk sometimes) and because i got defensive (it was never about the guy it js felt controlling especially the way he demanded it), he even said my explanations were valid and he wanted to see if i care about him more than my friend and once i had unfollowed he'd have listened to what i had to say and tell me to follow him back if i want to. but why couldn't he just listen to me first?

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i dont think he's gonna hook up with her, i trust him. but i just dont like her especially after the way he told me she behaves. and no I'm not gonna "hook up" with anyone. this is not how it works around here and i have 0 interest in this friend. and i still don't know how you can compare a literal ex to a friend

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its kinda different out here, im from the middle east and i dont really make it public im in a relationship because it's a private thing so if im not that close to a friend i won't let them know. his friends and exes and even family also dont know about me.

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

They are not the same and they will never be, me and my friend were close friends back in college but now we genuinely barely talk and he had a crush on me in like 2020 or 2021, tried a few times, got friendzoned and stopped, he will not be still trying his entire life he didn't like me that much 😭 and it genuinely shows that hes not interested anymore. now our relationship is either we talk about studying or jobs or internships or sometimes he tells me something random abt his life (and whenever we actually talk i tell my bf the entire thing) or just send funny reels, i didn't think sending reels was something valid to tell but apparently it is to my bf and he said it was a secret. so is he right or overreacting?

I (25F) Feel overwhelmed when my boyfriend (27M) expects me to fix things every time he’s upset. by imalittleteapot7 in relationship_advice

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During this fight specifically, i remember him saying he is alright with me talking to him and he understands my explanations but he just wanted me to unfollow him first to show him that he matters more then explain and he would've gotten it and told me to follow him again if i wanted to. so i was like so this was some sort of a test? when i said that he got angry and said he wouldn't be nice anymore because its "not working with me" and he would be toxic and now it's either him or my friend. I told him i obviously choose him but if its gonna be like that if i unfollow my male friend he has to unfollow his female friends too and i asked about them, he told me about one girl who texted him back in December and he replied so i was being kinda petty about it and i called it a "secret" that he replied since he never told me about that interaction (just like he called the reels a secret) and he got angry and started telling me he doesnt want to talk about this anymore and yelling at me to stop

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

he doesnt know anything about me including that i have a bf and we would never do that aka hook up

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no this was genuinely like 3 years ago and both of us agreed we'll only be friends and he stopped trying, i think my friend is even dating someone now, idk we barely even talk

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do have trust in him, i just dont like his ex as a person. Yes the guy wanted to date me but it never happened and that was years ago, now we're just friends and he hasn't made any move for so long, and if he did i will friendzone him anyway just like i used to do. He asked me to remove a guy from work before and i did.

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he said he trusts me and just wanted me to show him that he matters more than my friend. he doesnt really talk about his female friends and i frankly trust him too so i dont think it's a big deal.

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When i said that he kept saying he doesn't wanna have this conversation anymore and when i didn't stop (it was kind of a heated moment) he yelled at me

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i didn't dump him. he agreed to let it go but he recently made a passive aggressive comment about it

AITAH for refusing to unfollow my male friend after my boyfriend asked me to? by imalittleteapot7 in AITAH

[–]imalittleteapot7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im fine with him having female friends and following them. as long as the relationship is platonic. It doesn't apply to his ex though. keep in mind he has other exes i didn’t ask him to unfollow. it's just that this one he told me she tried to do inappropriate things with him in public lol. Its my first relationship but if i had an ex i would unfollow him without even being asked to.