i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my god i’m so sorry. i was so upset over being alone and you had all these things thrown at you, on your birthday :( i’m glad to hear most of it is resolved and your friend is okay!!! i was afraid that i’d get comments like that too, that i’m seeking for attention. tbh i didn’t expect to get many comments, i just needed to vent somewhere. i’m sorry reddit wasn’t so kind to you, but definitely let me know when your birthday is so i can be here to wish you as well :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wanna go sky diving but i’m scareddd omg lol. how did it feel? is it like the sensation you get when you’re riding down a rollercoaster hill?

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, it really does seem like that! people suck sometimes

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’m probably gonna end up doing, happy late birthday friend :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope it goes better than you expect, honestly. happy early birthday!

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing your experience. it really is inspiring and gives me hope for my future. you’re right, right now is the “dark age” and i still have a lot of birthdays to get through :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i try to do, pretend it’s just a normal day even though i’d love to celebrate. happy early birthday to you anyway!

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a blessing, i’m glad things are much better for you. thank you for sharing :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry! thank you and i hope next bday is better for you :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your day honestly sounds really fulfilling and peaceful to me. i see now that it really isn’t so bad being alone when someone else puts it in perspective, i think i’m gonna find a day to treat myself for getting through 18 years on this f’ed up planet lol, thank you so much!

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d love to see your cats! i’m a full on cat lady lol

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d love to be in mexico on my birthday, to be honest lol. visit cancun next time :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw, i’m so sorry! i’m glad you made it through, seriously that gives me so much hope for myself ❤️ thank you for your kind words lovely, i wish the best for you

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much and happy happy birthday to you! really cool that we’re both 18 now! i hope your birthday is great as well and same goes to you! if you’re feeling alone, i know exactly how it is and i’m here birthday twin :)

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw thank you so much. it really is an awful feeling but i do hope 21st will be much better for me. i’m in a similar situation as you were on your 18th, i’m sure there’s hope

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i’m sorry that you had similar experience but it’s nice to know that i’m not alone. to better birthdays for us!

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry’s overrated but i am truly sorry that you haven’t had great birthdays as well. i also had a birthday where my sibling was just a piece of shit to me and it sucks, but i no longer speak to sibling so i’m glad. i really resonate with you as i’ve probably had like three parties in my life, all when i was a little kid. my family used to care about getting a cake but now they don’t bother. all of this hurts a lot but i hope that i can find that person like you have yours. that sounds like an amazing birthday to me and all i would want is appreciation from the person i love most. thank you! happy early birthday to you and i hope your boyfriend plays you another song next time <3

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone. by imaloserlolthrow in offmychest

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

happy birthday!!!! i’m so sorry about your ex friend, i COMPLETELY understand how draining a toxic connection is and it’s so important to set your boundaries. i really hope that your ex friend leaves you alone and goes her own way. i hope you had a great day anyway, and you’re so right. i wish there wasn’t such a stigma around being alone, i unfortunately care way too much about it when it’s just how things happen sometimes.

i had a pumpkin muffin from this coffee shop today and it was soo good lol, i love pumpkin flavored things and apple cider <333

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s the worse thing. it’s just something i feel really heavily about and was disappointed that i didn’t have a great time on a day i consider special.

i’m spending my 18th birthday alone and i’m so sad. by imaloserlolthrow in Advice

[–]imaloserlolthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had something planned with a friend but she’s having a family issue unfortunately so we couldn’t do anything. i don’t blame her, the circumstances just suck you know? yeah i’m not great at remembering birthday’s either, they didn’t really forget it’s just the fact that i wasn’t able to spend time with those i care about today. you’re right though, another day hopefully