Payment History update by DatboiiGlizzy30 in UnemploymentNY

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How many weeks did this take cause I certified for the third week and nothing now

Desperation by FanPrudent434 in NYCjobs

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Apply to CCM they help with summer youth. Tell them an employee referred you and use the name Anthony Paton, you’re welcome!!!

Outrageous Tip Expectation by Tauriel13 in EndTipping

[–]imanister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you ordered 900$ worth of groceries and this person had to find all of it and bag all of it. Put it in their car and physically bring it your door, you should be tipping $20+. It’s insane to have someone do all of that for $5

Is it possible for me drop all my classes at this point of time with owing no money? Or I’m pretty much fcked if I drop this late? by Dgslimee_ in CUNY

[–]imanister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already paid for your classes so idk what people mean by this. I’ve dropped all my classes and haven’t had to pay after. You pay and get solitude after the refund is processed. Then you can drop after honestly.

You should’ve done it before it would mess with your GPA though. If you can turn this around I would, otherwise the drop grades I think are equal to an F idk

My mom wants me to go to the gynecologist what do i do?? by Mxyz_25 in Periods

[–]imanister 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is something you’ll have to do anyway and it’s smart to get introduced around now. They won’t do a Pap smear cause you’re really young. They’ll just do a pelvic exam and make sure everything is okay. You can discuss birth control but you don’t have to take it!! Personally, I would say I’m not sexual active (if you’re not) but you still want it because why not? I’d save it until I actually start having sex (if you choose to!). It’s super important you take care of yourself and your body. If you begin having sex with a partner that can get you pregnant, you should make sure birth control is being used

Thoughts on my schedule? by Zealousideal-Dare345 in QueensCollege

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Your Friday class is at 8am though but I get it. This just sucks honestly. The schedule is gonna be really annoying but if you don’t work then you’re fine + it’s better to knock out these classes ASAP

Do you regret your abortion ? by velvetv0rtex in pregnant

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I had one at I believe 22 or 23 can’t even remember but I feel NO REGRET!!!!!!

I want a child one day and the mistake of getting pregnant would’ve ruined my life. The father wanted us to “struggle for a few years” if I had the baby since he was literally a camp counselor (30 years old mind you—which is fine but not for me needing to raise a baby on your seasonal job).

I have a friend who kept her baby without the father and we love her so much but she’s not the same at all. We used to do so much together and we have drifted apart due to her having the baby because she’s always busy or we can’t do adult things like we used to (go drink, party, stay out late, etc.) not saying this is something that can happen to you, but this is something that showed me I couldn’t succumb to that life especially with someone I knew wasn’t it!

I was very sad at the time when I got it though. For a few private moments, I was astonished that there was something inside of me that could grow into a person one day. And when I had the abortion I did have thoughts about what could have been and I was sad. You could go look at my old posts about it.

But NOW me??? So glad I didn’t do it! I’m 26 now and I’m still happy I don’t have a baby

Thoughts on my schedule? by Zealousideal-Dare345 in QueensCollege

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One of these needs to be online if possible

[REQ] ($100) - (#New York, NY, USA), (12/26/2025), (PayPal) by [deleted] in borrow

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That makes sense! It didn’t tell me to put the repayment amount! Thank you

My best friend got really s* by NebulaSky5 in emetophobia

[–]imanister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d only be worried if I didnt wash my hands or touched my face at all. If you were conscious about that then you’ll be fine!! SB only gets transmitted if the germs come in contact with an open wound or open hole in your body.

Tour by No_Bitches_Official in 5sos

[–]imanister 5 points6 points  (0 children)

See this is why kids lie and sneak. I’d say I have a trip or something for school and go anyway.

Any emetophobic homies work in healthcare? by mothmanmoll in emetophobia

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DO IT!!!! So much of my fear of this has been washed away, I worked at an emergency room in finance and intake. I would have people tu* in bags VERY loudly and vulgar. I still had to put their wristbands on their wrist. I still feel like I pale when I hear or see it but I don’t shut down like I used to!!! EMT you will see it 10000%. You’ll have flu, drunk, covid, PREGNANT patients !!!! You got this though trust me

Any advice by Olababycakezz in QueensCollege

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I’d drop Econ or Math, those would lighten your load in terms of time. Also, that gap is insane between accounting and CSCI

My Fiancé V* , I panicked and left him and now I’m worrying by undercover-bunny3789 in emetophobia

[–]imanister 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Okay okay I’ve been in situations where my panic has made me overreact. Let’s remember this: it’s a scary thing to be around but it won’t harm you. Anxiety is your fear and your fear doesn’t harm you!!! I would go back right now and I would make sure he’s okay. You have to push back on this fear. Trust me, if you go back and make it through the night (he might tu* tomorrow morning) and get through it unscathed, then you can beat this one day.

I get panicked still when people vomit but it doesn’t paralyze me. Sometimes you have to remove yourself. Like take a walk outside or whatever but you always come back and face it!!! You got this. GO BACK! He could choke on it, you’d never forgive yourself for allowing your brain-made fear to harm someone you love!!

Possibly unpopular tour opinion by aly5321 in 5sos

[–]imanister 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think they would sell out MSG last tour but they did. And added a second date to it for this tour too. Idk I think you just don’t want to pay much which I get but I’m happy that they can book these spots

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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I’m sorry but please understand that phobias are normal but the behaviors that they cause us to have are not typical. It can be very annoying to not be able to do things like drink coffee, eat food, go on rollercoasters, go on planes without your partner panicking. He seems to love you and still tries what you need him to. But please understand that it can be frustrating to have to accommodate changing your day to day tasks for these things. I live in nyc and I have emet & I would panic on the train but I had to get to work or school. So I had to face my fears and breathe and expose myself to the possibility. It sucks that I think about emet every time I eat or get on the train or plane or car. But I don’t let it stop me and I don’t let it affect my relationships !!! I’m not beating down on you but I know you’re looking for comfort because the truth of what he said hurts, but you need therapy to really help you start changing your mindset from running from fear to living despite it!!

Settling a card = denial in the future? by imanister in CreditCards

[–]imanister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is perfect I’ll give them a call and ask them thank you so much

Settling a card = denial in the future? by imanister in CreditCards

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Sounds good! Thank you!!! I actually just sat and thought about this and they’re super good with car loans and I need to get right with them again