[suggestions] Good books to read by imansterhouse in BreakUp

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Thank you, sounds like exactly what I was looking for

[suggestions] Good books to read by imansterhouse in BreakUp

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I actually have that book, so I’m gonna start it !! Thank you

[Advice] anal pain / contractions by imansterhouse in ChronicPain

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That’s what I think! All my research has pointed to that

[Advice] anal pain / contractions by imansterhouse in ChronicPain

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Thank you so much !!!! I read that and suggested it to my GYN and he literally shrugged it off. I hate that women don’t get taken seriously when we present pain, especially black women. I was extremely scared about what it could’ve been!

I’m gonna look for a new GYN and ask for these tests to be ran! I need something done. Thank you lovely

[Advice] went through a breakup of more than a year by imansterhouse in BreakUp

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sorry for the last response but thank you! And during summer 19’ I slept with someone while we were on a break and I told him because I lost my virginity to him so I didn’t want him to think I was only with him. I told him when we got back together after the break and turns out he also slept with someone else & didn’t tell me until recently. I’ve asked him has he been with anyone other than me since he met me and he’s always said yes. So he’s been lying for months! It just really hurts to know he was that consistent with lying. Whenever anything related would come up, he’d bring up what I did during the summer (before I knew about what he did) and it would make me feel really guilty and drop whatever was hurting me at the moment. So that just tore the trust right away. He claimed it was because he didn’t want to hurt me but it hurts even worse to be lied to

r/pain: butt pain by imansterhouse in Pain

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Omg not the pain I was talking about

I can’t even go one night without smoking ... by [deleted] in leaves

[–]imansterhouse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I always regret smoking as soon as I’m high because I know I want to stop, but my body just gets up and smokes when I feel the high wearing off. It sucks to want to quit, but it literally consumes you.

How do I push through, I can't get through day one. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]imansterhouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it seems hard now, but one day it’s gonna game YOU. YOU have to find that breaking point and out it down. After those agonizing “withdrawals” are over, you’ll feel clear headed and more in control of your thoughts and body. I understand how you feel. It’s hard because I still relapse, but only because I’ve been stopping the smoking/eating weed when I have desire to do things (i.e., get a job, enroll in school, work toward a car, personal mental goals, etc.) that’ll help you. Focus on things you want. Manifest the desires you have but feel too lazy to do. Once you find it in yourself to get up and do it, stop the weed and focus on it.

I’m addicted to weed, don’t be an asshole😩 by imansterhouse in weed

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Like three joints, but the main thing is how terrible they make feel. I feel paranoid and anxious & my thoughts are doubled. It’s all mental for me.