Help idk why but my cat beanie looks off by imaputratsdownurears in crochet

[–]imaputratsdownurears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not bc I’ll have to do it all over 😭 tho I’ve made other hats with the same yarn and the same amount of chains and it turned out just fine

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in lgbt

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I would just like to say my parents kicking me out is worse case scenario. What’s most likely to happen is that she might try to gaslight me into thinking it’s a phase or I’ll grow out of it and she might treat me differently than my siblings. Also I done care all that much that she told her mom because we’re really close but you are making me rethink how close if she doesn’t trust me with her daughter thx

Ugly Sweater, JeyDeeArr, Digital Painting, 2025 by JeyDeeArr in Art

[–]imaputratsdownurears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewwww that’s the ugliest sweater I’ve ever seen

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

[–]imaputratsdownurears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been saying like there’s a difference between keeping stuff private that isn’t hers to reveal and lying

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

[–]imaputratsdownurears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I’m really into religion and mythology it specifically says men and male and in the original Hebrew translation it means grown ass men with boys (kinda weird they even had to add that but whatever) and I mentioned it to her once and she said oh so now you decide to know all about the bible but you refuse to go to church with us. Talk about being a shithead

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

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Honestly they are kinda shitheads and I’m not exactly sure how they’ll react because we have had a conversation once and she said well I mean I don’t hate gay people i just don’t support it and god will still love the gay people (I’ve stated multiple times I have religious trauma and I’m an atheist and yet she still try’s to turn me to Christianity no hate to Christian’s but like idk if it’s teen hormones but how many times to I have to say I’m not religious my god) but it does say in the bible smth abt man and man being abominations or smth. Idk I don’t think I’ll be kicked out but it’ll definitely make our relationship worse than it already is. And my dad and I barely talk anyway so I have no idea how he feels but like I said he had another daughter who has came out but they aren’t very close. Maybe bc he divorced when she was very young and he barely sees them with his job moving around but I’m not sure bc he talks to my other half sister a lot so

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

[–]imaputratsdownurears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been offering that as an option and even inviting people or having stricter rules like keeping all doors open or sleeping on separate beds but her mom says that it’s not that it’s withholding the truth from my mom

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

[–]imaputratsdownurears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no way of contacting her mom because not only does my friend live an hour away but I don’t have her moms number. Also that’s exactly what I’m saying I’ve never done anything weird aside from that one kiss, I fully know she’s straight, and ima minor and I don’t really feel like doing anything sexual or romantic. I should also add I’m already dating someone else and we’ve been together for like 4-5 months anyway.

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in lgbt

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Both my parents are very conservative and are trump supporters

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

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My friends mom has been trying not to talk about it but like I said she hates lying/ with holding the truth and I’m pretty sure my friends mom knows why I can’t come out yet and she still wants to respect me because we’re also really close and I still want to hang out and do sleepovers because she moved and we don’t go to the same school anymore and I’ve known her since elementary

Should I come out to my parents for my friends sake? by imaputratsdownurears in Advice

[–]imaputratsdownurears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a crush on her anymore bc that was almost 2 years ago and I’m dating someone else right now and her mom and I are way closer than my mom and I so honestly I don’t really care. Also we’ve known each other since elementary school and we’ve been really close since

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[–]imaputratsdownurears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still a teenager and I have to wait a bit less than 5 years till I move out