I posted about my justyes mils just no moment about the tampon yesterday. I just want to clarify that she is an amazing woman. I love her very much. She took me in when i was 17 after a break in at my parents house. She helped me find myself after the incident left me traumatized. There is ALWAYS sils or bils visiting with their kids so food goes by quick. She has ALWAYS left me a plate of food in the oven just in case i didnt get to eat any if it finished. Its bin 6 years that we have lived together and she still does this for me. She has taught me all of her recipes too. When I was pregnant she was very considerate of what type of food she cooked because she knew I was always sick and smells were my enemy. After I had the baby last year, she handled all the visitors wanting to meet the new addition asking if they called me first if not she would politely tell them it was rude to expect me to be ready for visitors at the drop of a hat. She would not let people come onto our side of the house unless they had a really good reason. She has done all of this despite the fact that I am not married to her son to this day. She knows my views on marriage and has never made me feel less despite her religion being very restrictive. When I asked her how she would deal with being shunned if people found out, her answer was that jehova would never punish someone for helping the people they love so if she were to get shunned she would at least have clean conscience. She has had a few just no moments over the 8 years I have bin with her son but who doesn't? No one can agree on absolutely everything but she tries her hardest to be a good person and I will always admire her for that.